Is it normal to still not tell her?

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There's a girl I've known for a fairly long time and have had a crush on for about 4-5 years and not said anything about it to her.Last time I saw her was 3 years ago at a school reunion and we (rarely) speak over the internet.Is it normal not to say anything and should I say something?

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  • FocoUS
    11 years ago

    Maybe let it go. The last time you saw her was 3 years ago. That's a long time.

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  • Mason334
    11 years ago

    Go for it

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  • Unimportant
    11 years ago

    No rush, give it a couple of more years.

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  • tuna
    11 years ago

    well, i think the next time you bump into her just have a small talk then ask her whats her plans or maybe her number as a start... start texting her randomly and see if she answers and how her answers were if u see she was interested while replying back.. long texts and etc... you should probably ask her out for a movie or dinner... make sure she's not already taken tho..

    best of luck!

    GO FOR IT

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  • loveechelle
    11 years ago

    the letter

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  • loveechelle
    11 years ago

    your senseless.... write her a letter, tell her why you wrote. be detail about your feelings...

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  • Silentnight
    11 years ago

    You should tell her.

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  • Shackleford96
    11 years ago

    Tell her DAMMIT!

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  • fullhouse
    11 years ago

    Go tell her!

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    How can you have a crush on someone you havent seen in 3 years?

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    • NightShade56
      11 years ago

      I misworded that I meant to say talked to.I see her quite often she lives fairly close.

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      • Marisol
        11 years ago

        When you see her next time ask her casually to go out for coffee or something. Don't be abrupt in telling her how you feel. Take a little bit of time and then ask her out. Tell her that you had a crush on her and that you like her. That is step number one. After that (if she agrees to go out with you) you will know what to do next. Be cool :)

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  • NightShade56
    11 years ago

    Problem is she doesn't have fb (I check monthly)and I can only talk to her through msn...which I've had bad experiences on to say the list.=L

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  • shuggy-chan
    11 years ago

    mehhh it a lil out of the blue, try talking to her on FB or something more first

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