Is it normal to still miss him after what he has done to me?

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About a year ago I had an ex boyfriend and we had been dating for about 6 months an I lobed him with everything I had. And we were together with a group of friends and this guy came up with some money in his hand.. After that my ex gave him some drugs and took the money, he told me before we were dating that he didn't do drugs. Anyways, I ran to the bathroom crying and my friend happens to be in the girls bathroom and she asked me what happend and I told her. And then she told the princible. My ex ended up moving. And he thinks I told the principal and no he hates me and I haven't seen him since. I miss him so much and it's been almost a year. I can't get over him, my friends still say that they can't picture me with anyone else. I still cry over him, and I really don't know what to do.. Is it normal to still love him?

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  • amyxox23
    12 years ago

    You haven't moved on since have you? If not, it's time to. If he loved you, he wouldn't be ignoring you. He also lied to you. If he does drugs, and sells them, he's most likely not worth your time. I know that's not what you want to hear, but trust me. He would only bring you trouble. You can find someone much better! Cheer up.

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  • woodchuckgra
    9 years ago

    Love is irrational. Oddly enough we sometimes fall for people that are bad for us. I have a straight friend I have messed around with a couple of times that does me bad. We party on my dime and when he got a $5000 check he partied with everyone but me. One guy ended up stealing $500 from him and he still invited him to a family BBQ where he stole an expensive bottle of tequila. And he had the nerve to get mad at me because I wouldn't wake up and look for something he lost at my house. I work long hours and it was early on my day off. Yet if he called right now I would jump up and run out of the door. Why I don't know but I care for the idiot. When he is broke and lonely he calls me cuz no one else will answer. He says he doesn't know why he treats me like he does, it upsets him but he says he can't help himself. He wants validation from these other yahoos that treat him like crap. Go figure....

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  • Fatu
    9 years ago

    ... it takes time to get over a love lost,but it is large enough to make new dates by doing so will make things much better move on pal

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  • Surfprincess
    12 years ago

    Amyxox23- he's not exactly ignoring me. He doesn't have a phone or facebook because his mom doesn't trust him anymore. But when he goes to his friends house he always tells them to text me. His friends tell me he hates me. But he doesn't know the truth. I don't know how to tell him the truth if I can see him or talk to him.

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    • amyxox23
      12 years ago

      Well if his own mother can't trust him, who can? why should you? You really dont want to be with this kid. I was involved in an emotionally abusive relationship when I was 15. I've gained some experience. Good luck, and I hope you make good choices!

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  • ygrowup
    12 years ago

    Yes it takes much time to get over a love lost, but it really is time to move on now. Your heart may always have a special place for him, but it is large enough to make room for another love! A replacement would make things much easier to put this behind you. Start moving in the right direction starting tomorrow, even if it is only small baby steps. Good luck with your choices.

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    You can't help who you care about but he obviously wasn't right for you or you wouldn't have been upset that he was dealing drugs. Your maybe just in shock that it ended so suddenly and your friends are still encouraging you.

    Let it go and find someone new to care about.

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