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there is i girl i havent seen in years but i still feel like i love her. somtimes she's all i think about and cant sleep. i dream about her when i do. is this normal?
Maybe you've forgotten the reasons why you guys broke up. Great for you, bad for whoever you're with. But this is very normal especially for guys. You always love her more after she's gone, thus the reason why you might never ever be happy- you will always love them best after because your mind doesn't allow you to
appreciate what you have right now.
I hope the guys that had crushes on me in high school aren't still swooning over me, that would just be pathetic.
I think its possible, but probably pointless if you know you'll never see them again.
There was this one guy, and the last time I saw him, and the last time I spoke to him was in 2008, but his face still came to my mind from then, until around the beginning of 2010. I'm not even joking! I couldn't get over him. It didn't help that I saw his friends all the time, and heard his name in conversations, and that I kept stumbling upon his facebook, and old myspace page randomly. And yeah, he even appeared in some of my dreams. Weird.
Finally, one day, I bumped into him somewhere. He was with someone, and honestly, I haven't thought of him much since. I mean, once in a while his face might come to mind, or I might hear his name in a conversation, but I certainly don't care/feel the same way as I did before when I think of him. And I really don't think I'd care all that much if I bumped into him at the mall, or grocery store, etc, as much as I probably would've cared back then. Him and I, had I guess, what you could call a 'thing'. And that day I bumped into him, I saw how changed he was. And I don't mean the way he looked. But he actually was acting like a jerk. He was just different. It was almost as if it weren't even the same nice guy that I once knew. It was someone else.
Anyway, I heard hes on hardcore drugs now. So I guess it explains a lot. That day that I saw him made me realize why our little 'thing' never bloomed. I guess I just needed a little reassurance that we weren't meant to be. So bumping into him, helped me understand that. I let go. Now, I've moved on, and I like someone else.
"You didn't have to give your necklace to me before I left, now I lay awake and think, how very smart you were, thought about you every day. Birds build their homes here right above my head, they make the same kind of sounds you do when we're laying in my bed. 100 ways, I thought about you and me 100 ways. " This song popped into my head. Porno for pyros. Good stuff