Is it normal to still love her

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Ok guys, excuse my grammar, I've been drinking. Any who, I met this girl in grade ten, she was literally nothing I ever wanted in a girl. She was kind, loving, accepting,she did not discriminate against anyone...ever and always had only positive things to say about people. Here's the thing though, I'm sure I still love her despite everything, I'm a hateful, arrogant, piece of crap person. We seriously would have never, in any universe, been compatible. Don't give me that "opposites attract shit" because seriously, that's not true. Comming back to the point, I feel like I've been in love with her for 5 years, I am now an adult, I haven't seen her 3 years yet I still dream of her every night. It's not like I want her(if she had to ask me out I'd say no) I just don't know. Is it normal to love someone you could honestly never get along with.

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  • purplegirl22
    11 years ago

    Aww :/ well just try and get over her. That is my best advice. Date someone else and distract yourself from this girl.

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  • purplegirl22
    11 years ago

    Did you ever date her in that 5 year period? Just asking because I need a little more background info. Thanks OP!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      11 years ago

      No I was totally friend zoned hey

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    11 years ago

    That's a really interesting thought, maybe I do want to be like her and that's why I'm so attracted to her.

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    • davidssnow
      11 years ago

      i go through the same shit man i havent talked to this chick in 2 years and everytime i get a text she is the first person that comes to my mind but like you said if it was her and she asked to get back together i wouldnt cause i have nothing to say to her we are not compatable i know that but my subconscions doesnt because i dream about us being together and it when i wake up i dont know if its real or fake cause we broke up and got back together so many times and i still have her stupid ring i need to pitch that crap but i cant

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  • Anime7
    11 years ago

    You never know you two could have something in common. Maybe it's possible that you're attracted to her because you want to be like her? As you said, she's everything you're not and maybe you don't like who you are. However, if you're as big of an asshole as you say you are then chances are that you don't want to change and this self-hate theory of mine is bogus. I'm probably way off but that's the only reason in mind that works besides the whole "opposites attract shit."

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