Is it normal to still love a cheater :/

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at first : I am sorry for writing a long paragraph :) x
i had a boyfriend we have been together for 3 years in the first 2 years we were a happy in the last one not at all ! :S we broke up because he likes to flirt with other girls but to him I am the one that he loves and i loved him too :)
he cheated on me with other girl and that girl she didnt know we were together and until now she doesnt know , he never loved this girl , that girl was a slut ! everyday with a guy she didnt love him and either he... they were together for 2 months only and he broke up with her because he still loves me he tried to apologize for what he did but i didnt accept he hurt me but i still love him :/ i want to forgive him i dont know what to do anymore :( and now there is other guy i think i like him , he is so funny , has a good personality but we are only friends in the high school and i dont know if he likes me 2 or no but i think no ! he treats me like friend only ! but everytime i look at the second one i feel like i am a guilty !! that i still really love the first one , but everyone tells me i have to forget the first one and never forgive him but i cant :( help me please :)

the 1st guy 9
the 2nd guy 7
other guy 9
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  • U.O.E.N.O.
    10 years ago

    Forget that cheating bastard U.O.E.N.O. it.
    He's just gonna cheat again U.O.E.N.O. it.
    Gotta get with that other guy U.O.E.N.O. it
    He gonna make you very happy I.E.N.O. it.

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    • Ariana:D
      10 years ago

      thank you :)
      but what can I do to forget him ,, i cant :( !

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      • U.O.E.N.O.
        10 years ago

        It takes time and that other guy
        You'll forget him like you forget what you ate last night
        He'll try to win you back don't let him try
        He failed at the best woman of his life

        I had the same problem U.O.E.N.O. it
        Got Cheated on 20 times I.O.E.N.O. it
        I wish you goodluck U.O.E.N.O. it

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        • Ariana:D
          10 years ago

          yeah what you said is true :D
          thanks for your advice =)

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          • [Old Memory]
            10 years ago

            That U.O.E.N.O. guy wants to rape your butthole.

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            • Ariana:D
              10 years ago

              O.o why you say that !! he is just giving me an advice :)
              what do you think about my problem ? :(

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  • Jill123
    10 years ago

    hmmm....interesting. Some cheating bastards don't deserve to be loved. Like the ones who are also abusive to their partner while they're out cheating on them. However, there are two sides to everything. Some cheaters treat their wives and girlfriends pretty damn well but still fool around with other women. Isn't it true that most guys cheat at least once in their life time? Will someone want to slap me if I say it's their "nature"? Sorry, but I think it is. Men are very weak, and I've seen men who had gorgeous wives but still cheated on them with someone very plain looking. Probably because they just enjoy having someone different for a while. In other countries it's considered "normal" for a man to have a mistress on the side. I'm sure most of these men love their wives and would never leave them. It doesn't necessarily mean he's a creep or a bastard. As I said, many guys treat their partners very well and love them but still fool around with other women. Probably most women will get angry at me for saying all this. I think it's because a lot of women simply don't understand 100% just how powerful the sex urge is for men. Yes, we love sex too but I think men need variety sometime. Guys, am I right about you? Cheating doesn't necessarily make you a bad person, though I believe it's still wrong if you made a commitment to one woman. I'm a woman and I love men. But I think I understand their sex urges more than a lot of other women do.

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    • Ariana:D
      10 years ago

      I wish all women like you , you think in a good way ! i guess your BF cheated on you once and you forgive him :) Thanks your post made my day and i will try to forgive him you are right (Y)

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  • Darkoil
    10 years ago

    Just remember, fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me.

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    • Ariana:D
      10 years ago

      Yeah you are right but do you think if i forgive him (the first one) he is going to cheat on me again ??!!! :O

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  • Adriana_white
    10 years ago

    umm i think if you really love the first guy and you are pretty sure that he loves you ,, try to forgive him

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    • Ariana:D
      10 years ago

      Thank you :)

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  • Elmanta
    10 years ago

    You never ever settle for a guy who cheated on you :(

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    • Ariana:D
      10 years ago

      i wish i could give him a chance :(

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      • Elmanta
        10 years ago

        If i were you I'd give him one more chance and I'll make him feel like I've forgotten all about it but if he screws that chance up then its done for me :/ try to give him a chance , time , and the feeling that you really care about him and that you want him badly

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