Is it normal to still like this guy?

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Okay, so I am crushing on this really amazing guy. We started out as friends, but I slowly started crushing on him. A couple days ago, we were talking about what we like in a person. I used a few descriptors that described him. What he said threw me off so badly. He said that he likes tall, skinny girls with smaller boobs. I am the polar opposite of all of those things. I feel like if I confess how I feel, then he will reject me cause I don't fit what he likes. Is it normal that I'm still crushing and pursuing him?

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  • RoseIsabella
    7 years ago

    Depends.

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  • Ms.Dempsy
    7 years ago

    Just because that is what he likes appearance wise doesn't mean your not his spirit wise. You feel me. You could be wifey all day. That's bae. You two already friends. He so wants to bone. You better get your man!!

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  • Fall_leaves
    7 years ago

    That's oddly specific, he probably knows you have a crush on him but if he reciprocated those feelings he would have acted on them by now.

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    • shuggy-chan
      7 years ago

      oky oky, i can take a hint, geez

      I'll start taking acting classes

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  • Jujudog
    7 years ago

    abduct him and tie him up in your basement. Torture him until he changes his favourite type to match you exactly.
    This is the only viable option that I can see

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  • Ellenna
    7 years ago

    Forget it: he's obviously so superficial he has a "type" which isn't you, so there's no future for you with him

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  • sandnigga
    7 years ago

    Keep trying to be with him.

    With true love, those things dont matter.

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    • Ellenna
      7 years ago

      That's really silly advice: he's made it clear she's not his type and if he's that superficial he's not going to change his mind.

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      • sandnigga
        7 years ago

        just because you have a certain preference for a girl, doesnt mean you're automatically shallow.

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        • Ellenna
          7 years ago

          It does to me: appearance is the LEAST important thing in a relationship ... unless of course you are immature and/or shallow

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          • The sailor is dead
            7 years ago

            Maybe thats why you're FAT

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          • sandnigga
            7 years ago

            well then thats very foolish of you

            i agree, apparence is one of the least important things

            just cause you have an opinion of what you'd like your girlfriend to be like, doesnt automatically mean you're shallow

            im talking about overall, not just one small thing like that

            what makes you shallow is your will to be shallow. If you GOTTA have specifically a tall chick with brown eyes, who weighs 120 pounds and wont have it any other way, thats shallow

            but if you just have a preference of what you like in a girl, but dont have to have that, then thats not shallow
            it's called a preference, thats what im trying to say

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      • sandnigga
        7 years ago

        n btw It's actually pretty damn good advice

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      • sandnigga
        7 years ago

        "type"? you really play off this type bullshit?

        this is why people fail at relationships, because they get caught up in all the shallow nonsense

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