Is it normal to still like my ex?

I still really like my ex boyfriend. I have liked him for like over 6 years. We went out a few times. I broke up with him (TWICE) because he wasn't treating me like a proper girlfriend. I felt like I was an embarrassment because we never spoke in public and we never did anything.

I regretted breaking up with him the 1st time because I did still love him so I got back with him because I thought it would be different. It wasn't. It was the same and I couldn't deal with it anymore so I had to end it again.

I moved on and I have a boyfriend now. We have done some stuff but lately he's been a bit distant. And me and my ex have been talking more and I realised that I still have feelings for him.

I really don't know what to do because I do love my boyfriend but I just feel like he doesn't feel the same way back. If he did spend more time with me, I wouldn't have got my feelings back for my ex..

What should I do?

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  • bucketfullofassholes

    Your ex doesn't like you, he never did. Better not ruin your current relationship and end up with nothing.

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  • maskofsanity

    Please don't go back to lick your vomit. Time will heal things. He clearly doesn't like you don't go back to him and end up with nobody.

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  • yesnomaybeso

    I don't think you should blame your current boyfriend for having feelings for your ex. If you still like your ex (although you shouldn't because if you broke up, it means something was wrong... it's called break up because it's broken, always remember that!), there's nothing your current boyfriend can do. he can do the nicest, but deep down, the day he's not home with you, if you still like your ex, youll be thinking of him. that's what i learnt...

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  • Tealights

    Just stop dating for a while, and figure out what you're looking for. You don't know what you want, and you'll end up confusing yourself as well as everyone you date.

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