Is it normal to still like/love a bf who cheated on me?

I had been dating a guy for 7 months and we loved each other. He cheated on me with a girl he has apparently been waiting for for 2 1/2 years. (we are in middle school so nothing serious happened with cheating) I forgave him but he decided he wanted to be with her instead. We have been broken up for 5 months and I still feel like I cant get over him. Any suggestions on how to? It's been keeping me up at night thinking about it, so sooner is better than later.

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  • jensapa

    Find some one else.

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  • lillypoppy

    obviously he doesn't care about you so why bother the sooner you realize this the better

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  • manyhandedmusician

    To be honest, if he cheated on you, then he wasn't worth keeping.

    That's my policy with dating. ;)

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  • 8Serene8

    No that's stupid.

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  • wreckd

    You're in middle school. You'll get over it. No need focusing on boys, you have years of school left to worry about.

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  • rayst

    You should have more self respect girl

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  • chezycheze

    It sounds normal. Its especially hard at that age because you see the person or hear people talk about them all the time at school. Anyways, developing a liking for someone else is probably the easiest way to get over him.

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