Is it normal to still like him and check his facebook so much?

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I had a fling for a week and a half with a guy which ended because I messed it up pretty badly. I was very interested in him. I haven't spoken to him since late october, so what, 4 months ago? Although I still see him out often we never talk or even say hi. I check his facebook page every day, several times, I don't even know what I'm looking for. If I see hes added a girl i'll see if shes prettier than me etc..sometimes I'll set statuses hoping he'll read them..and I think about the fun we had together every night before I go to sleep and imagine if things had worked out differently. is it normal or am I actually a stalker? not even gunna lie I do sometimes find out what clubs hes going to and go to them. In my defence I never follow him around when I get there, I just want to be around incase I finally get up the courage to try and start a conversation with him or something. Is this something people do more than they admit to or do I seriously need to move on? please don't be too harsh, this behaviour is totally uncharacteristic I swear..:P also in defence about the facebook thing, my course at uni only has a few timetabled hours a week so I have ALOT of spare time to spend looking at random crap on facebook...

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  • nanimeow
    13 years ago

    There will be others. There always is.

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  • nanimeow
    13 years ago

    I think you might be stuck in a fantasy which probably isn't healthy if he is clearly not interested. There is nothing wrong with liking someone though. I find the best way to get over someone is work on yourself or try to find someone else. And what do you mean by messed it up pretty bad? If you were just being yourself and he didn't get interested, than there is no problem there. You can't force people to like you.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      13 years ago

      well, basically i kissed another guy. we weren't exclusive but it still ended things for us. i think if i hadn't done that and it had just been that he wasn't interested in me, it would be much easier to get over. it's knowing what we could have had and that i messed it up with one drunken kiss off a guy i didn't even like that is driving me mad i think. i know you're right i need to forget it but i hate myself so much for blowing it

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  • lovergirl88
    13 years ago

    i personally think this is normal, i along with you have liked someone before and occasionly looked at his page. I think everyone feels the same way. Although, actully going to places he goes to is alittle bit far from what i would say.. but in all i think it s pretty normal

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  • liveforyou!
    11 years ago

    MY FRIEND HAVE THE SAME PROBLEM! just ignore and get out of his fb, never log on again. focus on inportant things, and he was lucky to have u. ignore every thing. move on, honey

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    12 years ago

    No it's not normal.

    It's unhealthy and pretty much being a stalker.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Bitches be crazy yo

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  • Faceless
    13 years ago

    Yeah, your a regular stalker. Get it through your head he doesnt like you now move on! Think of how youd feel if a creepy guy you didnt like was doing the same thing to you. For Shame.

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