Is it normal to still like a girl that turned you down

I liked a girl earler this year and she said she doesnt want to date anybody. I tried to get over her but ive came back and like her again. Is this normal?

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Based on 39 votes (35 yes)
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  • Anime7

    Definitely normal. A broken heart isn't something that can be healed in a day. Give yourself some time and you'll eventually get over her.

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  • Lonely2

    Yes, you are in fact very healthy in a way because your feelings of rejection did not kill your feelings of attraction and affection....in other words you are mature enough to like somebody whether or not they like you...its unconditional love ...yourfeelings are your feelings...the only issue is if your somehow stuck or obsessed on her....

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  • TooPure

    Not normal. Find someone else, she rejected your reality, your feelings. The end.

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  • dejaentendu!

    Liking someone is not dependent on whether they like you back, so utterly normal.
    Healthy? Maybe not.

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  • Captain_Kegstand

    I am still crazy about a girl that I know locally, even though she is now dating my best friend. I would never act on it because I am too good of a person for that, but it still hurts when I see them together all lovey dovey and wish it could be me holding her. :(

    Broken hearts are a fickle beast!

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    • dejaentendu!

      Aww. I'm sorry. :(
      That sounds awful.

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      • Captain_Kegstand

        Live and learn, and time will heal I guess lolz.

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  • starkid

    Yep it's normal once a guy asked me out 2 times in 1 school year

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  • dirtybirdy

    Sure. I had such a crush on a total asshole in high-school who never gave anyone the time of day. Years later he was calling me all the time and wanted to hang out and whatnot. I gave it a whirl but realised it wasn't worth my time at that point.

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  • Corleone

    It's normal, but try spending some time with other people in order to forget her. You don't want to dwell too much on old feelings. Sooner or later you'll regret it.

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  • BigScaryRooster

    It's normal to like someone you can't have.

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  • VioletTrees

    It's normal. You should leave her alone, though.

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    • Sniperdude416

      Me and her are good friends now tho

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      • VioletTrees

        That's fine, as long as you're not just being her friend in hopes of having a relationship.

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        • Sniperdude416

          Im not

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          • flutterhigh

            Questionable:

            xkcd. com / 513

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            • VioletTrees

              That's exactly what I'm worried about.

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