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I lost my virginity to this guy who is an asshole to me, and I have hookup with many other guys after him, but I still seem to have really strong feelings for him and would basically give up anything to be with him? are these feelings normal...
You probably don't want to accept the fact that you lost your virginity to someone like that. You would probably like a second chance to rewrite history which is why you think you still have feelings for him. Forget about him and move on.
No its normol considering you lost your virginity to him you would have a cosiderable attachment given that fact, if you dated him you have past expierences and feel a bond to him regardless how he treated you he was still the one you called your Boyfreind . Also if you hooked up with him maybe was he good to you at one time or sometimes ? you would also have a deep attatchemnt from that , if he was your first boyfreind than that means that makes him extra speciel as well . So yaeh thier is a bunch of things that can factor this .
It's tough I mean I've still never lost my virginity but I do know that usually your first is hard to get over & you get attached.