Is it normal to still feel hurt?

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We dated for 1 year and out of the blue he dumped me the day after I got rejected from Uni and found out about my mum having cancer. 2 weeks later he was already all over some new girl (all over Facebook) there going to the ball together and the group photos pop up on Facebook. It's been nearly 5 months and he's still on my mind some times it makes me so angry and upset Because I didn't see it coming and I feel lyed to so is it normal ? 5 months later to still feel like this ? Any tips to moving on ? I'm so over these feelings

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Based on 23 votes (20 yes)
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  • Real_prospective
    9 years ago

    You were rejected without a reason of course it's normal to feel hurt years later. It will get easier to move forward. Be thankful it happened before you had kids with the loser.

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  • Oreobeast
    11 years ago

    Some guys and girls are like that. A similar scenario happen with my ex gf. I think about her a lot 2 years later :/

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  • dontgiveup:)
    11 years ago

    Yes, it's normal. Y'all dated for a year! But you deserve better:) find someone who will be with you through thick and thin!

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  • emz18
    11 years ago

    Thanks ^ getting outside and working out does help :)

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  • buttons
    11 years ago

    I'm sorry to hear about that. You should start working out/ It helps a little bit. Get really inshape?

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    FIND SOMEONE ELSE, THAT GUYS A FUCK, AND THE ONLY WAY TO GET OVER ONE FUCKING GUY IS TO FIND ANOTHER FUCK HEAD. THEN HE FUCKS YOU OVER AND YOU FIND ANOTHER FUCK HEAD. THE CIRCLE OF FUCKING LIFE. FUCKING COW.

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  • SLAYERoftheWICKED
    11 years ago

    That guy is a FUCKING PUSSY!!!!

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  • davesumba
    11 years ago

    he found a better girl than you, get over it, he probably even met her before he broke up with you which is why he broke up "out of the blue." it may have nothing to do with you, and that the girl is better or the guy is a jerk/douche/asshole, or it may have everything to do with you, ie: were you too clingy, jealous etc.
    the problem with people these days is they don't establish a relationship with someone they are truly in love with, they just stay with people they like, as long as it doesn't get in the way of what they want to do, and when something comes around that's better, they leave.

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