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Alright, my ex-boyfriend jilted me for some blond bimbo and he ripped my heart out and stomped on it. I hate him with every bit of energy I have. Yet, I still have romantic dreams about him when I sleep. It's always that we're together and happy and when I wake up, sometimes I wish it WERE like that, yet I can't help but hate him to the full extent
You can only hate someone that much that still affects you. Once you are truly over your ex, you will be indifferent to him. His name shouldn't trigger strong emotions either way. Until that happens, you are still going to think about him and obsess and feel strong emotions. It's normal!
ive been having the same problem..me and my ex were together for 3 years and then we broke up and hes happy with someone else now. it really does hurt even though it has been a year since we broke up. and i keep having the same dreams with him all happy, and when i wake up it makes me so upset. its totaly normal..if you were in love. and you only hate him becasue he broke your heart. thats exactly how i feel :(
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No need for name calling. It's actually really hard to be hung up on somebody for longer than you want to be. Friends won't listen and sometimes it starts to feel abnormal. This is a good place for reality checks.
Btw, it is *not* normal to resort to name-calling when you haven't been offended.