Is it normal to still be infatuated with a ex.

I'm in a fully committed relationship but I catch myself thinking about a ex. He was a total jerk but I was so infatuated with him I didn't care. He had everything I physically wanted in a guy. I don't know I feel guilty for having these feelings. I have to stop myself from texting him.I've only had the want to actually talk to him a couple of times but never did. I just can't seem to shake him. It's been 2 years since we broke up. Hmmmm..... could really use some advice

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  • Tommythecat.

    Don't pick up feces from the sidewalk.

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  • RoseIsabella

    The lust of the mind can take years to drain away.

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  • kandiegirl

    My current boyfriend is amazing but there's just something about the ex that makes me still yearn for him. He was just so attractive

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  • barebackbottomboi

    Same issue. My ex was s total jerk, but he has a big cock and he tempts me

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  • Normal55

    You need to look for personality, not the physical features, not the social features. A guy may be shy in the public, but inside he may be a hardcore social paradise!

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  • dom180

    You can't choose what you find physically attractive. You don't have power over that.

    What you do have power over is keeping him a fantasy, out of real life, where he can't mess up your life or damage what you have with your current partner.

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