Is it normal to still be hung up on an ex bestfriend after a year?

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I had a fight with my best friend over a year ago and I still think about and miss the relationship every single day. I just can't get over her. I think that maybe it's not really her I miss but the times I had with her and the nature of the relationship itself.
I've given her a good Facebook stalk every now and then, and like me she has made new friends but unlike me, she seems to have moved on. It's not like her new life's better than what she had when we were together, as it doesn't look like she's as close to anyone as she was with me. But I just don't know how to accept that the times have changed and I don't know how to get over it. We have made up, but we don't actually speak anymore.

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  • Darkoil
    11 years ago

    What is it with girls falling out. I have a very close group of guy friends and there is no situation that could bring us to fall out with each other.

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    • nelly96
      11 years ago

      I watch this with other groups of best friends i know. Guys just seem inseparable and so much closer. Yet with girls, you stir up once and you're gone.

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  • Mando
    11 years ago

    Maybe with time and an effort to rebuild trust and closeness? It doesn't seem unusual at all that you would feel and regret the loss of a good friendship.

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  • Energy
    11 years ago

    What if she secretly stalks your Facebook too, and wonders the same?! Try to regain communication by popping her a message.

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    • nelly96
      11 years ago

      Thank you, I've wondered about this myself but I've been too afraid that I'll make an ass of myself. I'll give try it, it's worth a shot.

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  • Eattherich713
    11 years ago

    I say it's normal... for me it's been like 3 years. I'm "over it," I don't try to contact him anymore, but I'll always miss him. I don't understand I guess.

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  • chelsealovesyou10
    11 years ago

    I'm in the same situation except I moved schools so basically she decided to drop me! It's normal trust me

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    • nelly96
      11 years ago

      It sucks doesn't it? :( thank you for your reply though.

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    • redoctober
      11 years ago

      lol

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