Is it normal to still be a virgin at 30 under these circumstances?

Well done to you.

I think after all you went through there should be no issue in getting a girlfriend.

Stop telling yourself all the negative things. I mean, look at where you are now.

You are saying that after all the hard work you went through to get out of the wheel chair, that you cannot approach a girl.

Snap out of it! It is that much easier now. Who cares if you get embarrassed? It happens. And trust me, she will not care if you get red in the face or confuse yourself whilst talking to her.

The right girl will not judge you, and will let you approach her and take things further.

Get out of the house, look around;if you happen see the one that you like, say hi, introduce yourself. If that does not work, find another one. There are so many girls out there.

Can you walk normally now...or is it still quite noticeable from your demeanor? I am a girl, and just from your description, I find no reason why I would not date you. Don't be discouraged. If you are attractive, you will have all the ladies swooning in no time, regardless of your past.

Chicks Love stories like this, you know how much this story can get you laid?? (if you tell it right) ..Im a girl and I would so take your innocence lol. I just have a soft spot for the self-loathing.

It is about how the person is on the inside. You seem like a really nice guy, so I see no reason why you shouldn't be able to get a girlfriend, apart from lack of confidence. Keep going and you will get a strong relationship. Good luck!

of course you can!! maybe go out with a group of your friends and their girlfriends/gf friends and see if there are any you like? in a relaxed social setting like that is it easy to meet people. and dont put so much pressure on yourself or call yourself a loser, focus on building up your confidence and filling your life with interesting activities/people and the right girl will come along. if its meant to be it will happen :) you could also join a support group for those with similar conditions as you'll meet people who truly understand and maybe some girls! or try internet dating, its getting more popular and i know of quite a few young, attractive, well-adjusted people who met that way :)

Is there a place you can go that your with other people in your same situation (Special X-Games)? If not can you find or start a web-site that links other people in your same situation? The world is amazingly large and I imagine that there ate a lot of people in your same situation that want the same thing (to love)but your not going to find it sitting at home waiting for another to find you, I too am handicapped; thankfully not in a wheelchair yet, but you need to get out into the world and interact with others and you will find exactly what your looking for.

BTW - we are all freaks regardless of what we think is normality.

be strong be happy and she will find you!

I'm ALWAYS gonna be a virgin. Its normal =)

Be confident and go for it - good luck!

Dude when you go through rough hardships it should make you feel stronger so i don't understand why you can't be more positive.

I have trouble with girls cause i am not intersing, but you have gone through some crazy shit tell someone about it i bet they will be interested and maybe will start to like you.

well hey if Stephen Hawking who's in a wheelchair and communicates with his eyes and tongue can get a wife, there's hope for all of us. :)

Why do people come to this site to complain about not losing it yet. Its not the end of the world just move on. Being gay is ok, and being a virgin is ok. Dont make a big deal over dumb crap. Its not high-school you have a right to be yourself now.

though I'm fairly attractive? I hate people that say things like that, stop being so god damn egotistical