Is it normal to stay with a guy even tho he cheated on you 2 times

Well my boyfriend and I have been together for 5 months now (we live in different states about 400 miles away from each other) and hes already cheated on me twice... I broke up with him but for some reason I took him back he wouldnt stop begging me to take him back with these long messages about how he loves me and hes sorry and he cant live without me and that he'll make up for it... is it normal? or is he just playin me and am i fallin got it?

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Based on 103 votes (8 yes)
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Comments ( 25 )
  • bloodyvaginalbelch

    NO NO NO. Break up with him!

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  • soccer2

    Leave now. Nobody deserves to be cheated on especially twice. He doesnt love u cuz if he did then he wouldn't do it. And I'm sorry to say that it was stupid of u to take his cheating ass back

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    • abhishek_t87

      I agree with you soccer 2.

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  • theytookthisone

    If you are a weak person, it is normal to stay with him. So go ahead and do it if youre a masochist and love to be miserable

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  • Gidget

    i never take long distant relationships seriously like how can u be mad are you providing him with his physical needs when your 400 miles away?

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  • No stay with him he sounds liek a noice guy

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    • Gidget

      lol

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  • fralanasko

    @: gowila

    That has definitely got to be sarcasm or something.

    Deeply troubling if it's not.

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  • fralanasko

    Dump the mother fucker already!

    Long distance and unfaithful!? That does not sound good at all. Plus it's only been 5 months!

    Sounds like you need to be the chick that dumps this guy on his ass so he realises it's not ok to treat sombody like this.

    Also you will both probably be happier to not be in an LDR where sleeping with other people is not ok. He obviously wants to fuck around, you don't want him to, just let him go!

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  • xstarbugyx

    This isn't even a real relationship your pathetic try dating someone who you act see on a daily bases and maybe they won't cheat on you. Let me guess your prob still in high school lol

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  • Noonesperfect

    your a fucking idiot.

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  • bexico5

    Cheated twice in 5 months? Break up asap trust me

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  • gako

    5 months and cheated already twice???? Wow even a 10 year old would know what to do. Leave his ass!

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  • DannyKanes

    Dump him and don't listen to his lies, you're being used as a back up plan, so if he can't score somewhere else, he's always got you to fall back on. Fuck this low life scum bag off and find a decent guy.

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  • EnchantedSpirit

    Honey, Dump his ass. 2 times is alot! I was in a long distance relationship with my hunny for 4 years and not once did we cheat. Especiall when it is long distance the trust is never goign to come back. i promise you will be so much better off without him, he is an asshole , i don't know him but i do know cheating is wrong! and especially long distance you don't need that heartbreak and you don't need that stress! leave him and save your breathe for some1 who deserves you.

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  • sadpants

    her bin true it me self leave before its to late trust me im still goin true it i no its hard to let go but doo

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  • supeflyred

    Although usually its the girls playing the mind games, Boys get a kick out of it too. If someone cheats on you, it means that they're subliminally telling you your not right for them

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  • emmyrose

    First 6 months is the honeymoon period, he's taking you for a ride, get rid of him and find a proper man

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  • arabmoney

    Mama the only reason y he stays talking to you is because u r a bak up plan and it's so much easier to bag someone else if u know that whether they turn u down or not theyhav someone to talk to at night and tell them they love them

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  • TB1920

    "Stay with him cause cheating is the international way of saying i love you."

    shit happens

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  • LiamHale

    Dude, you're being played! Break it off!

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  • abhishek_t87

    Please Have mercy on urself... He must be kicked out from ur life... He really dont love you... I can bet on this.

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  • gowila

    He loves you. You should honor that. My boy friend cheats all the time and although it makes me want to commit suicide and I constantly vomit when I think about it because it hurts so much, I honor him and love him. Even though he hits me I know it's my fault.

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    • Gidget

      you have to be joking this comment was a joke right no one is this stupid

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    • EnchantedSpirit

      I feel so bad for you. Don't stay with this guy he doesnt deserve you honey. seriously LEave him. save your life and heart.

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