Is it normal to stay in a relationship with someone

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I need help please.. My story is, I been out with my bofriend since 3 years. since that 3 years he never show me that he love me, he never to anything for me. we only see once in a month that's it. Every time i'm trying to brak up with him he always beg me to stay everything gonna chang ect.. But it's always the way they where before nothing change at all.. he text me me every 2 days just say hi babe.. But the thing is i'm really in love him.. I try to get over him.. I try everything.. he still in my head,, I cry every single day, today I find him on a dating website...

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  • outfielder10
    12 years ago

    First love is the hardest to get over trust me!
    But it's something that once time has gone by you'll look back and say thank God I didn't waste anymore time!
    Girl I've been there. Exact same position.

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  • Dad
    12 years ago

    Strange when you get use to something.
    Old habits die hard.

    In other words you don't seem like you really want to be with him, so break up and stick to your decision.
    Your sadness will go away in 2 weeks tops.
    For obsessive people its around 6 months, but that's not you.

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  • Lala45
    12 years ago

    It's been 2 days since I tell him I broke up with him.. He never text me, ask me for what reason

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    You need to write a list of all the things you 'love' about him, then write another list of all the things he does that you don't like.

    I bet I can tell which one will be longer!!

    Bin him and don't ever allow anyone to treat you so badly ever again in your life!!
    Learn from this mistake and waste of time!!

    Have some respect for yourself and dump this waster! He will respect you more for having a spine.

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    • Lala45
      12 years ago

      I try to dump him to today.. I text him it's over between us, I don't want to hear anything about you anymore i'm done.. I'm so over you... and then after 2hours I text him back sorry for those texts, I didn't mean it..I can get over you.. I'm still falling deeply in love with you..<BR><BR>Guess what he text me back..<BR>I know... that's why I didn't text you back... because you can't leave me

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      • joybird
        12 years ago

        Uhoh :o( This means he knows he can treat you like rubbish and he thinks you are such a fool that you will hang around to be abused.

        He's right though isn't he?

        I hope someday you grow up and gain some self-respect.

        However, he will dump you soon because men don't like doormats and he will take up with someone exciting, dynamic and feisty.

        Sorry girl, you're in trouble.

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        • Lala45
          12 years ago

          I'm so don't want that happen to me.....Because otherwise I will die

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          • joybird
            12 years ago

            You will not die!!!

            You had better change and learn to respect yourself so that he will start to respect you. He needs to know he has something valuable and want to keep it. Not a doormat, he wipes his feet on and kicks out of his way when he gets bored!

            Get a hobby.
            Don't always be available.
            Don't text him first.
            Only text if you have something to say!
            Turn phone off when you go to bed.
            Don't allow him to dictate what you do or where you go.

            Grow a backbone and love yourself first!!

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            • Lala45
              12 years ago

              I will try

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