Is it normal to stay in a bad relationship??

Is it normal for me to still be madly in love with my man and fight for my marriage even though I haven't been myself or been happy for a long time and I recently found out that my husband has been cheating on me the whole relationship... cheating with men!!!?

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16% Normal
Based on 31 votes (5 yes)
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Comments ( 12 )
  • thegypsysailor

    I'd say perfectly natural, for someone who doesn't think she deserves better in this life. Someone with little self respect or pride.
    It's not love; it's settling for what you have, because you are afraid to let go, even if you are miserable.

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  • Aries

    it's not normal although the attachment won't disappear during the confusion in an instant . I would advise you to move on though .. unless you enjoy him fucking men and being married to you however you already said you were un happy for a while so .. just leave . You deserve better

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  • Darkoil

    So he has been banging another guy, it's not the end of the world. Maybe ask him to invite his lover round and have a bisexual threesome.

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    • devin2013

      I'm not into that

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      • Nokiot9

        Yeah well the man you are madly in love with is. So it's either time to widen your horizons or time to pack your shit and get steppin.

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  • Ellenna

    "Madly" is the significant word in your post: do you live in a soap opera or real life?

    How do you "fight for your marriage"? That's a meaningless term and you're wasting your life with this dishonest man

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  • This_guy_is_normal

    no... that is not normal. but i guess you should be confirmed before reaching to the any conclusion.

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  • dirtybirdy

    NO! For Fucks sake.

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  • devin2013

    I won't trust ever again for sure

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  • RoseIsabella

    Good luck with that, and be careful that he doesn't give an incurable disease.

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  • Short4Words

    Your husband has been hiding two big lies from you. How could you ever trust him again?

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  • noid

    No.

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