Is it normal to start hating your best friend?

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Lately, I've been very upset with my best friend because what she is doing is pissing me off. In a way she changed when she had her first serious relationship. She seems to go in and out of love with multiple guys. It happened ever since her first serious relationship turn out horrible. Currently she's with another guy right now but she's going to break up with him because she's moving. which I understand, but also right now she's interested in another guy that she's only known for two months and he's already confessed to her that he liked her and she confessed to like him also, but she still haven't broken up with her current boyfriend yet. she's spending so much time with this new guy and it makes me feel so bad for her current boyfriend cause he's such a nice guy. It's really bothering me to the point where i try to convince her to end the relationship with who she is with now, but she's constantly saying she doesn't like to hurt people, but what she's doing right now hanging out with the new guy that confessed to her is really bothering me to the point where when I see her I feel disgusted. I get this feeling inside where I want to punch her face and yell at her for being such a slut, and for not being responsible enough to deal with her problems. I feel so disgusted seeing her that I feel like throw up looking at her. I realize I always get this way when I have a friend that cheats on their boyfriend or girlfriend.Is this normal to feel this way?

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  • CompletelyOverThought
    11 years ago

    I have a friend who actually is quite opposite from your friend and never has (and probably never will) get with a guy. Her downfall is that she is an annoying prick who is extremely self-centered. Ignoring her during her bad times seems to have been helping her fix her attitude. I think your friend just wants to feel in control. You could help her by finding something else for her to control...or if you really despise her just let her deal with her mess on her own.

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  • DarkBlue
    11 years ago

    Look, I think it is normal..I would be pissed off too if my friend has done the same..but in the beginning you said something to the effect of that is not her normal pattern of behaviour, but she changed after a bad experience, right? So, take it easy on her..I'm not saying turn a blind eye to what she's doing..no, you're her best friend..it's your job to tell her the truth and help her..what I mean is don't give up on her..she might be suffering too..

    The reason why I'm saying this because I kinda had similar situation..It didn't involve turning into a relationship addict :D But there was a time when I was very depressed..and I wasn't myself at all..my best friends, instead of being supportive, they just weren't there..I know I wasn't fun, but I was going through hard time too..So give her some time, you're her best friend, you know her better..try to understand why is she doing this..try to help if you can..I'm sure you'll be able to realize if she's being herself or not

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  • pambambam
    11 years ago

    i hate sluts.

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