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So there's this guy I know. I really like him. He's in a small band with his friends(they're just a local band) I look at his band facebook page and see pics of him. I saw his mom liked one so I looked at his moms account. Now I wish I had never done that because I don't want him to think I'm creepy and get scared off.
You feel bad for just looking at his moms account? I assure you thats not weird at all, you would be surprised about the creeping people do around social networking! But, if you like this person you should go to one of his bands gigs and see what happens, you'll be showing support and he'll like that:)
Stalking is weird and creepy! It's hypocritical of you to expect him to not think it's weird. Get a grip! How would you like having some random dude stalk you?
When I was in college I was s DJ at the campus radio station and there was this stupid football player who read the news during my shift who ended up stalking me. I was miserable during that first semester. I had to report him to my department head, my RA and the campus police.
If you don't want him to think you're creepy don't act like a creep. Accept that you are powerless over whether or he's interested in you. He can be scared off if he wants to be.
Why the hell should a guy be scared of a girl looking at pictures of him? How much of a pussy can somebody be to act like that?
And what's with all this "stalking" bullshit? How is it stalking if someone looks up a bunch of pictures someone else deliberately put on their facebook? Stalking is when someone is following you on the street, watching you from the bushes, creeping around corners, obsessed about you and all that. That is stalking! Not some person looking at some picture who someone put online exactly for that purpose. To be looked at.
DAMN people are scared little squirrels these days!
I actually would enjoy if someone stalked me. It would make me feel like some one cares about me enough to want to know what I do every second
any teenage crush is messed up...you have to start somewhere right, the first time in the dating world is always the craziest...but boy do you learn.
Unless there's more to the story, I don't understand why you're calling yourself a stalker. If people didn't want their photos looked at, they wouldn't post them online for everyone to see. He won't know you've done it anyway.
If he cared that you had looked at photos that had been publicly posted on the Internet to promote his band, he would be the weird one. I don't even find looking at his mum's page weird. It's out there for anyone to see and you are curious about the guy you have a crush on. If I was in a relationship with someone and they told me they'd done that before we were together, I would not care at all. I would care if they were actually contacting my family members, harassing me with unwanted messages/calls, following me home etc.
You probably won't end up dating this guy. I think you are better off letting it go and finding a better way to spend you time.