Is it normal to spank 17 year olds?

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I am 31 years old, and I took in 3 teenagers as if they were my own daughters, I took them in when they were 15 and I live with them on and off because they leave and come back all the time. I took them in because I wanted to be a mother and because I felt bad for them because they didnt have a good mom and they had difficult childhoods. I went against my family in order to live with them because no body in my family likes them. It's going to be 3 years since I took in the first one. I have been dedicating all my money to them and to be able to live with them. I feel like I am their true mom, and I think they see me as a mother. I discipline them with spanking because in the beggining I tried other ways of discipline and they walked al over me, I tried talking to them but they didnt pay attention, they would be like: when are you gonna be finished talking?. I tried taking things away but then they would just entertain themselves with something else. if I took everything from them they didnt care because they were used to not having anything in life since they grew up poor, they would just sleep all day, and act depressed, and that made me get worried cuz they all suffered from depression and even had selfharm issues. A year ago I finally got tired of them walking all over me and started to use spanking as the only means of discipline, 2 of them are 17 and I had to spank them both, they say they are too old for that but I dont know what else to do, its that or just letting go and allowing them to do whatever they like.

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  • aaaa1234
    6 years ago

    First consider other punishments like extra chores. Spanking should be used only if it is providing effective results and you are sure that there is no other way. Please don't do it too hard, else you might cause physical injury. I would recommend you to use just your hand and avoid hairbrushes, belts, etc, as they just cause too much pain. Humiliation is the purpose of a spanking rather than physical pain. If you are spanking them, make them remove all of their clothes before the spanking, and don't allow them to wear any clothes for a few hours after the punishment, so that humiliation will instill a sense of discipline in them. Again, please remember to do this only if necessary.

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  • teendicksuckers
    5 years ago

    I'm 20 and my Sisters are 17 and 19 and we all three get bare bottom spankings almost everyday

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  • hotyoungbicouple
    6 years ago

    Yes a girl is never too old for a bare bottom spanking

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  • SmokeEverything
    6 years ago

    Do what you want but at age 17 they're big enough to fight back, so physical punishment is kind of less effective. Hitting your kids only works til they're big enough to kick your ass

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  • dicka912
    6 years ago

    As long as they are living under your roof, you have the right to punish them how you see fit. Spankings is a great way. Our teenage daughters still get spanked when needed.

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  • JonathanOo
    6 years ago

    Ground them from electronics? You need to learn another way

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