Is it normal to spam the woman your boyfriend cheated on you with?

I was very angry the other day after my boyfriend told me he cheated on me with a woman he had a previously sexual relationship with, so I irrationally got her email and phone and signed her up to a bunch of porn/spam websites. Too much or simply petty? (currently I'm just amused).

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  • TerryVie

    Unlike the majority, i'd say the reaction is pretty normal.

    Both of them had a part in this, and the first reaction is to somehow hurt/damage both of them in return.

    So ya, the "method" choosen would be too subtle/childish(for lack of a better word) for my tastes, but whatever works for you.

    Just make sure that you don't let _HIM_ off easy, either. While what she did was definitely "wrong", he has a lot more responsibility towards you than she had.

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  • lc1988

    I never understand this. Why do people punish the person their significant other cheated on them with. More often than not, that person had no clue they were in a relationship.

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    • Alison89

      This is what I always wonder.

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  • Oh she knew, and he was drunk on the verge of passing out. She was not

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    • Alison89

      Why was he drunk and on the verge of passing out with a woman he had a previous sexual relationship with?

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    • TheBalance

      You sure you're not just making excuses for your boyfriend?

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  • He cheated on you as well and he's the one you're meant to love and trust. You're putting revenge on the wrong person.

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  • rin

    If she knew you were with him then it's okay, but shouldn't you be punishing him instead?

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