Is it normal to sometimes go backwards in a relationship?
I have been with my girlfriend since, We were both 18. when I first starting doing the doors. Since the first night we just got on so well & when I found out Afew days later from her friend that she liked me. I was so happy & couldn't stop smiling. After our first date we spent every free time together. I had already had sex before but I was her first but said 2 her I don't mind how long she wants 2 wait because I just loved being with her.
then after 3 months we had sex. She said she was going to university & didn't want to leave me. I said I would move with her anywhere she wants to go. Her mum was going through a break up with this guy. my gf & her mum said why don't we all move away together & it would be a good idea.
3 years down. I got my degree but my gf failed so had to redo her final year. At this time me & her mum had a argument which ended up me having 2 move out. I didn't want to leave her, I started renting a house. But to my shock she never moved in with me & stayed with her mum.
I even said that she didn't have to pay any bills. At this time she was horrible to me. She would only come 2 visit me once a week then answer the fone to me. One day she said to me that she wanted to just be friends. So I said ok. That night my m8 phoned me & said he saw my gf out with a group of people. Me & my m8 went there but I pretended, I brought her a drink. when I went over 2 see her. She said it was over. I said yeah that's fine, girls kepted going passed me & smiling at me. She why don't u just go off with one of them sluts. I just walked off & out of the club then home.
Next morning she rung me saying she thinks it's for the best that we are friends. I said no I that wanna be friends with her coz it would be abit weird being friends with her if I or her had a new partner so I would be better not 2. Next day she phoned me crying saying she would be able not having me in her life anymore & asked me 2 meet up. I agreed. we meet up & then got back together.
A year down the line we would never really see each other only once or twice a week & she would only stay down mine once a month. In the end I got fend up & decided to move home with my parents & spend time with my family & friends for awhile. I went to visit her Afew weeks ago & while looking through our holiday pictures on her laptop while she was at work I saw a photo of her sat on a guys lap & then noticed it was the night she dumped me which I changed all my feelings for her. When she got home I asked her about the photo & she kicked off saying y was I checking all her stuff & for me to go if I don't trust her. So I drove home.
Afew days later she come to see me & said it was nothing in it & she never done anything & she said why would she go 4 him when she had me? I through maybe she never then im not big headed but im 6ft4 & im in very good shape & always get alot of attention from girls when I'm on the doors & sometimes when I out in the day. this guys lap she was sat on was the opposite 2 me. He looked Like Harry Potters twin brother. So we got back together.
Since being back the last few weeks I feel like I've got a new life & I don't really Like long distance relationship which now we have living 200 miles apart. I don't ring her every day like i used 2 do anymore then she will ring me 2 or 3 days later saying do I still live her but she don't ring me either. I just feel like I have been trying 2 make it work for so long now & I'm tired of it now. She us making a effect now ringing me & has come to visit me twice in a month & booked a trip away together in 2 weeks time for us to go to the place we have always talked about moving to when she finishs university in 2 months time. I don't know if she is just dragging me along & just don't want another girl to have me? Should I just give up & have someone new or should u just see how things go?