Is it normal to sometimes fantasize more about cuddling than sex?

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Sometimes when I see girls around me, I start to imagine what it would be like to wake up next to them. I've pretty much decided that I want to stay a virgin until marriage, but I would love more than anything to just have a random hookup while hammered (I've never gotten super drunk before), but pass out next to her before we do anything I'll regret, then wake up the next morning with my arm around her and my face in her hair, and just feel her body warmth, trying to pretend I'm still asleep while snuggling up closer. Am I weird?

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  • dappled
    11 years ago

    If you're weird, I am too. I think the same thing every morning when I make my bed. That there was a girl in there so I jump back in and have her hair in my face and her curled up around me, making little noises.

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    • BLAh81
      11 years ago

      I'm totally with you (provided those noises don't come out of her ass).

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      • dappled
        11 years ago

        Ha! My ex and I went away once when she had stomach problems. While she was asleep, I couldn't believe how often she was ripping off so I kept a mental tally. It was literally every 15-20 seconds. I don't know where it was all coming from!

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  • laugh.alot13
    11 years ago

    Awww it's totally normal :) I do that too and I love to think that guys as well as girls dream about cuddling.

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    • BLAh81
      11 years ago

      Yeah, sure we do.

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  • Jbabe
    11 years ago

    Aww I need a guy like you all! And yes it's completely normal.

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  • Corleone
    11 years ago

    Yeah, of course. If I've got fuzzy feelings for someone I fantasize about cuddling them as well.

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  • slaybelles
    11 years ago

    Totally normal. I fantasize more about spooning or making out with guys than I do about sex.
    Granted, that may be because I've never had that sort of physical relationship before.

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  • 1000yrVampireKing
    11 years ago

    So you are not a horndog. That is normal.

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  • fullhouse
    11 years ago

    It's not a very common thing but I guess it's normal.. I prefer sex over cuddling but I DO Love cuddling as well..

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  • MiaScarlette.
    11 years ago

    Really.....i hate when guys have to be cute. You know it. Just say that and watch like 50 girls surround you. ):<

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  • imawierdo
    11 years ago

    Aw...><

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  • jamesmitchell29486
    11 years ago

    hell like99% of the time i'm wishing for a cuddle i'm not gonna lie i wish i could have sex til she cam then cum inside her then just stay inside as i go soft and just hold her all night.

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  • kimi
    11 years ago

    I do it and so do lots of other ppl all around the world so it is normal

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  • Imposturously_yours
    11 years ago

    it's very normal... I get the same, but the guys I usually dream about are hetero :/

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  • dom180
    11 years ago

    Aww. It's normal for me :)

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Shuggy?

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