Is it normal to sleepover at my best friends' girlfriends' house?

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I have the spent the past 3 nights at my best friend's girlfriends' house while he is not here. We used to date a long time ago but broke up and she has been dating my best friend for 4 years. We are best friends as well and I still have a little feelings for her, probably just physical attraction and our friendship. I feel bad though because I feel like I am betraying him. We haven't done anything besides cuddle and hang out but I do find myself thinking about her sexually. I won't do anything about those thoughts but should I still feel guilty?

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    "We used to date a long time ago but broke up and she has been dating my best friend for 4 years"

    That's the weird part.

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  • sheat
    11 years ago

    yes you should because just thinking about it your doing wrong. friendship comes first than a girl and maybe you hiding it from your friend and you friend trust you and that's why he doesn't feel jealous. but o well and the girl too if she doesn't like your friend tell her to tell her why being with someone that you don't like because if she really like your friend she wouldn't be touching you or flirting and well maybe I feel she likes you and I don't doubt it that she will leave your friend for you

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  • fartonmyface
    11 years ago

    Cuddling. That's interesting. You spent 3 nights "cuddling" with your "best friend's" girlfriend.

    Just think about that for a moment an reflect upon yourself. You're creating a big problem for yourself and your friend. All for a girl who obviously doesn't know what she wants. If you want to be a good friend, you tell your best friend that his gf made a move on you by cuddling with you and that she isn't right for him. You then cut off communication with her all together. If not, you are probably going to end up being just a sucker for this girls games that she's playing with you and your friend. Remember, bros before hoes.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    If you aren't doing anything then it should be ok.

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