Is it normal to sleep with someone who cheated on you?

So, this has been killing me for a while now. I had a boyfriend, whom I cared for very much. I found out 7 months into the relationship that he had been two timing me. After we broke up, he came back to me a couple months later and told me he missed the sex. I did too, and wanting to get revenge I had sex with him, again and again, and again. It's been going on for a while now and I just don't know what to do. I'm still very emotionally attached to him. He says he is too, but wants to stay with his former girlfriend. I wish he wouldn't though, because that's pretty stupid. He cheated on me with her and on her with me. Very confusing, and painful to be played like that :(

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Comments ( 27 )
  • Have some respect for yourself.

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  • I lose a little bit of hope for humanity every time I read stories like this. Just leave the guy and stop being part of his affair.

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  • christophero1973

    While it may be normal to sleep with someone who betrayed you, it's another to help that person betray another...so get even with him and TELL HER! At least your conscious will be somewhat clear.

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  • InvadingPotatoLeader

    You must have low self esteem..
    Don't let him use you anymore do something about it.

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  • Nomster!

    It's not very confusing. The answer is clear. :l

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  • SlutLover636

    If people didn't have sex with people who cheated on them. Nobody would be having sex. Everybody cheats.

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  • Idodolphins

    If u need someone to fk fk a dolphin

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  • ccjigsaw

    Some people just don't get this, and I think your one of them. "The world doesn't revolve around sex!" So what if the sex is great? The emotional part goes to hell the moment it's an affair, dump his ass for real, tell his girlfriend and move on!

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  • bookmaniac

    well, unfortunately, you are now playing his game. so you aren't an innocent victim. Your actions reveal that you are just like him - but, he did it first. And now that you know that, the pressure's off. Tell him you love the sex, and that you want it from him anytime he's into it. Maybe you're better as FWB than as anything else. Neither of you has the right "stuff" to be committed, and even if you did, you're both kind of damaged goods...move on. But nail him when you want to.

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  • lc1988

    He's not going to give up his lifestyle while you're still giving him what he wants.

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  • You are a filthy whore.

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  • Roxyg

    have some respect for yourself

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  • hxcpixie926

    um you are not only a dumb bitch but what if he has something. How do you know he's not messing around with other girls and you might have a disease. You know HIV is 100% preventable with a condom. For your sake you need to drop this relationship, get tested and stay the hell away from and/or any other guy with a girl. Hoes aren't cute and sweetheart right now you are not playing the victim role, your just another lay for this guy not love. Also you need to let his real girl know what's been going on for her health. You both deserve better... why play the role of the other woman? There are millons of men soooo much better than this peace of shit you picked up.

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    • hxcpixie926

      *HIV isn't a 100% preventable with a condom

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  • ishitpandas

    Dont do it!

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  • tomperry

    It's not normal,unless you're a doormat. Get out from under, respect yourself and be an equal to men. I can't stand docile women.

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  • smallwondey89

    @sunny_wantsome : seriously you don't know Joey?

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  • 1auren

    I think you should end it because by having sex with him you are playing his game. If you miss the sex, get a proper boyfriend who won't be cheating on you because your wasting away your life with this guy.

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  • helluvabunny

    I had a similar experience with an ex...he didn't cheat on me, but I felt compelled to keep sleeping with him after he broke up with me. I think that I still had feelings for him, and he only came around to see me casually, when he wanted. I was ashamed about it and stopped. Now we're just friends. You should probably aim to stop too, although it's not easy...

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  • xxmorphine

    I've been in denial, but finally let go... haha, joey!

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  • Lynxikat

    You're the one being pretty dumb right now for letting him use you like this :P

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  • Well looks like everyone else said what I wanted to say... But he's a lucky guy

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  • chatter289

    ouch! what you did is not good at all, in all honesty, you are no better than him now for doing what you did and i think both you girl should fuck him off! he seems like a douche and both you girls need someone else.. LEAVE HIM, get yourself a make over, and move on and find a good guy

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  • jesusdiedlol

    Joey from friends or Joey from full house?

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  • Darkoil

    In the words of joey ' this man is my god'

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    • sunny_wantsome

      who is joey?

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      • Darkoil

        You don't know who joey is?

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