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As a guy, I have sometimes felt pressure to sleep with lots of girls. I have ended up sleeping with 150-200, and I haven't been attracted to a single one. To be honest, I've done it for other guys more than for girls.
I think this is at least a bit weird, but I wonder if I'm the only one.
Wow. No, I don't think that this is normal.
If you're not enjoying sex, then there is no point in having it.
Out of 200 girls you didn't find any of them good looking? I am not trying to be an asshole but are you sure you are not gay?
This made me gag. That's so nasty... 150-200?? And you're okay with that?? Guys like you make me sick.
I only want to sleep with men who want to physically hurt me. Choose to hold out for what you need
Seriously, No...not normal. I'm not attracted to four legged animals and I sure as hell wouldn't sleep with one to make my friends happy. The same goes for women I'm not attracted to as well. You buckle to peer pressure.
It depends on your motives. If you're doing it just to get off, I suppose anyone will do.
But it sounds like you are acting too much under the influence of your friends. I have to concur that, after 200 girls, and not finding any of them attractive, you have to evaluate your sexual orientation. Or maybe you need professional help: 200 sexual partners is worrying... 200 sexual encounters because your friends say so is a crisis!
Do you know a girl - any girl - that you are attracted to? ...where the relationship is not subject to influences by your friends? Try exploring that relationship see where it leads you.
Dood! you should be selling some PUA course if you could bag that many chicks all the while not really enjoying yourself!!
Dude I do not mean this offensively but if you are fucking girls to impress guys you may subconsciously want guys
I would love to shag that many birds but as far as I'm concerned they have to look good. I have standards.
I wouldnt advise it but use protection and try doin it after your outve highschool ATLEAST
Hey whatever floats your boat bud.
Confucius say:
Bad fuck better than good wank.
Werent you at least worried about contracting an STD? And dont feed me some bullshit about how you "knew" each of those people were clean beforehand.
In fact I find it hard to believe that you havent had an STD, just by probability of 200 partners you had to have had at least one.
I'm a female and I feel that I was in the same boat. You can't be doing that though because it will make you feel like complete crap- at least it made me feel like crap... If you aren't attracted to someone it generally isn't good sex. Sometimes your friends can pressure you or the person who you are going to sleep with pressures you but you have to do what you want to do, you can say no.
Why sleep with someone you are not ttracted to. Just masturbate and it is done. You can close your eyes and envision anyone. It is easier and you dont have to leave the house to do it. No one knows and no one laughs at you unless you do it in crouded places.
150 to 200? Let me guess, they were all prostitutes? I don't blame you for not finding any of them attractive, but you must be a bit strapped for cash by now. :P
A hundred fifty to two hundred people? That's ridiculous and I honestly don't believe you. You really should re-evalulate your life regardless of the number if you're not actually attracted to the people you're having sex with. You shouldn't feel pressured into having sex with that many people. Go find someone you like and wait to have sex with them. Good luck telling your future spouse about this, by the way. It should make an interesting conversation.
It's maybe the fact that you doing it for other people. Why? I couldn't tell you. That's weird all on it's own. Sex is personal and intimate. You need to say fuck impressing the crowd and start doing for yourself. It's not very impressive to have such a high number of fucks unless your some kind of porn star. So swipe that plate clean. Find what really attracts you and go with it. No need to fuck every girl like you have noooo control over your dick...Cause believe it or not you do, and no body else... Then again i only say this cause you say you're not enjoying it. To have 200 kills and enjoyed it probably wouldn't be an issue. You just wasted a whole shit load of your time.
Don't let people talk you into doin something u don't feel comfortable doing
Certainly not! If you're not attracted to them, then why do it? Don't you have any self-esteem? Anyone that pressures you into having sex isn't worth the time of day anyway. Find someone you really care about and have a relationship with them.
You should talk to someone about this- not the people who pressure you. Heh. That's an awfully large number for not enjoying yourself.
A couple of unattractive partners is questionable; this is too much.
What the hell is the point? Sounds awful to me! Why base yourself on what everyone else thinks?
I think it's normal. Guys seem to be able to sleep with whoever comes near them, they dont tend to discriminate. Sex is sex regardless of the partners. There are few exceptions but I tend to think males view sex as very impersonal. I have found that the more people I sleep with that I don't particularly fancy, the easier I find to do it again in the future.
Just be careful though, treat each of the girls with respect. Be clear with them!
I made my bf wait 6 months! (poor guy) But i knew if he stayed that long, he loved me for me and not how pretty i am... we have been together for 3 years now