Is it normal to sleep and cuddle in the same bed and not have sex?

I have been seeing this guy for 2 monthes and I'm seriously attracted to him. When it comes to sex he says he wants to wait because just about every relationship he's been in has ended the same way, with her cheating on him. He keeps telling me "Whats the rush?" or "It will be better if we wait.". We cuddle and sleep in the same bed and it's driving me crazy.

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  • Everyone is different, if he wants to take it easy, just respect it, after all it will worth the wait!! ;)

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  • gowila and Audacio, I am disappointed.
    Before you jump into sex, try relating to his soul, his personality, the things he is offering to you. Then, when the bond is strong and the time is right, just go with the flow. Make the bond stronger with sexual commitment.
    BUT NOT before both of you are ready!
    And the fact that its driving you crazy already makes it worth waiting! That's just hot... =/

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  • marley56

    Two months?? Girl slow down! It's better to wait awhile, not just jump right into having sex!

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  • CrazyNiteOwl

    2 months is only 8 weeks, 60 days if you will. thats not much time at all, take it slow. and don't be like a man or sum of these douchbags above and say you'll leave if he doesn't put out. that's just shallow. believe it or not guys have feelings too, and he's probably been extremely hurt by these past girlfriends and wants to make sure you're not the same, which you'll be telling him you are if you push it. enjoy the little things while you can, get to know him as a person, not just what he can do in bed

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  • L0v3bu9

    If he needs time, give hime time.

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  • Audacia

    He probably has a smallish penis and doesn't want to disappoint you.

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  • DandyElfman

    If you love him enough you will wait.

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  • Proudfear

    if its bugging u get him to do other shit i guess

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  • Proudfear

    nothing wrong with that just wait not a big deal

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  • gowila

    I had sex with my wife the first night I met her. That guy must have an STD that he is tryn to get rid of. Maybe one of his cheating girls gave it to him. Tell him to put out or you will leave

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  • billyboy

    Normal or not, I don't really know. I am not even sure what the f*** "normal" actually is, or if there really is any such thing.

    But... I know I did that with both my mom (as a teenager) abd my wife (both before and after we wed). Of course, on the other hand, I did some times have sex with both of them - my mom in my teens and my wife in my late twenties and thirties on. So it was not just exclusively sleeping in the same bed and cuddling. With my mom, the coitus was sort of occasional, being about once a week most of the time. After my gf (and later wife) began having sex, we usually had sex quite a bit, sometimes several times a day, so there was less cuddling only. But it still happened occasionally, especially in later years as my virility really began to wane.

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  • SOMERANDOMGUY1243235

    Yes it's normal

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  • noid

    If it bothers you sleep in another bed.

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  • Treez

    I didn't like my brother so I had sex with someone he didn't like in his bed

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  • Is it possible he put the other gf's off to the point that they "cheated." Maybe he cheated them - of sex - in a committed relationship.

    2 months id=s not all that long. But at some point I think IIN to want to explore the sexual side of the relationship as part of deciding on long term prospects.

    I mean what if you wait, get married & then his big surprise in "waiting" was that you & he have totally different sexual needs/interest/libido?

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  • c3po950

    hes probly short and yes i mean down there

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