Is it normal to seriously question if you're trans

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but decide you're probably not? Anyway first time was when someone made me aware in a you are supposed to have some sort of emotional sense of belonging to your gender (as opposed to it being a purely physical fact that I had always thought till now), and I realize I have no such thing. And later a lot of times when I found that I don't fit a lot of the stereotypes, not only in interests but also several personality traits. I think I actually have around 50/50 feminine to masculine personality traits, based on a chart i saw. And apparently there is a mental aspect of gender that I still don't fully understand. Another thing is despite me being female most people on the internet tend to assume I'm male if I say nothing about it. But I realized later its just the norm. I honestly prefer to be "male" on the internet because you don't get so many people who think they know you before they have met you.

On the other hand I never had the thing where you hate your own body for being the wrong sex (don't think I would mind the opposite either), which is what made me decide against. Has anyone else questioned it?

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  • SkullsNRoses
    2 years ago

    The “no girls on the internet” rule strikes again.

    Where did you read that you’re meant to have an emotional sense of belonging to your gender? I’m sure some people do but many, myself included, don’t. As for stereotypes very few people exactly fit the archetype for their gender stereotype and the world would be boring if they did. I’m especially not surprised if you feel you don’t fit the female stereotype as it’s so narrow, limiting and unflattering. Feeling like your interests and traits are more 50/50 doesn’t in itself mean that you can’t be cis.

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  • 1WeirdGuy
    2 years ago

    Quit looking at gender charts and just move on with life. I advise you to quit associating with all these SJWs who cheerlead others on when they do this. There's alot more things to worry about in life. These are silly first world problems.

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  • techpc
    2 years ago

    I don't think there's supposed to be an emotional sense of belonging to your gender, maybe just not having an emotional sense of not belonging to it?

    I'm pretty sure you need to have gender dysphoria to be transgender, which is what you described as hating your body for being the wrong sex. I don't know, take my opinion with a grain of salt. I'm not transgender.

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