Is it normal to send nudes to your boyfriend?

I have been dating this guy for about a month and I am considering send him nudes. I have never sent them to anyone before cause I haven't found anyone that I really trust until now. So what should I do? Oh and we are going long distance and I won't see him as often anyways. I really trust him but I do give my trust to alot of people whom have abused it. So yes to nudes or no?

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Based on 67 votes (49 yes)
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  • ToxicCrayons

    Make sure you don't show your face and take them against a white wall so there is nothing in the picture that would be used to identify you.

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  • derpyderp

    To be serious go for it. He will love it. Just make sure you only shoot from neck down, don't show your face, for reasons mentioned by others...

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  • derpyderp

    No. You should send them to me instead...

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  • aussiewolf

    i wouldnt do it if i was you. what happens if you break up and he still has those pictures of you? the internet can be used in evil ways and if the break up is bad then chances are he is going to post your pictures everywhere just to get you back.
    i had some pictures taken of me when i went out with my first boyfriend and luckily the internet wasnt so easily accessible then so that thought didnt cross my mind but now i wonder what ever happened to those pictures and how many copies were made!

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  • bigguy2010

    One unexpected virus or Trojan horse and some hacker has remote access to his computer and your picture.

    What will happen when the computer is no longer needed? Some people are good at refurbishing unwanted computers and/or recovering deleted data such as a picture.

    What happens when you break up? How will you be sure he destroys all copies?

    What if the picture is intentionally or unintentionally leaked? It could wind up on a heavily trafficked adult site.

    Some employers will not hire you if they learn an inappropriate picture of you is on the web. They simply wouldn't want you representing their company.

    Think it over carefully. Very carefully. You have a lot to lose and nothing to win.

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  • _justwondering_

    Don't send anyone any pictures you wouldn't want on the Internet for all to see. Trusted or not, the repercussions of doing that could literally be around forever.

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  • RawrzMmm

    I say no, but it's up to you.

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  • 8Serene8

    Up to you but I wouldn't trust anyone who you don't get to see that often.

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