Is it normal to seek for rich partner in life? to envy them

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For some unknown reason I fall in love with rich girls (not knowing that they are rich at first), and then thinking that it's a shame I couldn't really be their partner in life, and that in fact they could really "fix" some corners for me LOL.
anyways I feel like I need someone to substantiate me, my parents are good and loving, but have no house of their own, we pay rent... and getting everything wrapped in a box from you future wife seems so easy. I feel down because I fell in love with a girl I met here, things didn't work so well, and now I see her photos and it seems like things are easy for her (don't want to sound jealous, I try my best not to be... but just saying).

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  • plum6
    11 years ago

    as long as you don't expect the woman to support you all the way. I do not come from a poor family but I too find succesful/wealthy women attractive, even more when they are self-made and not in a privileged situation due to parents or family because I simply enjoy being around people who are driven and capable enough to succeed in life. Also, I find that such women are often stronger and more confident in general, which I love as well. So I wouldn't say it's weird at all, unless you are only looking for someone to provide for you.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    You need more nostrils obviously.

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  • Captain_Kegstand
    11 years ago

    I came from a dirt ass poor family as well. They supported me in every possible way they could, but being from limited in resources, a lot of my current position came from the work I have put in. There is nothing better than looking at everything you have and know it is yours, and not your parents or your girlfriends. Work your ass off to put yourself in that "rich category". Then things will be easy for you, and if you still like rich girls then you can support one!

    Don't ever expect anybody to do anything for you. The only person you can count on is you, and contrary to popular belief, the best things in life are the ones that you have earned!

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    11 years ago

    I came from a pretty broke family so I understand what you are saying. I envy people with money too. When I see someone my age driving a nice new car that their parents bought them and I think of how many years I will spend working my ass off like this to get what they were given right off the bat I almost want to feel sorry for myself. It makes me feel worthless that I am from lesser stock.

    But work for what you want. Just do it, life doesn't always hand shit to you. Work for it and you will appreciate it much more than someone who had it handed to them could.

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