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I can't help it but I can't seem to just befriends with a girl, I always try end up flirting with them and I act like I like them but they're not attractive to me. how can I stop?
Start to care a little bit more about other people and a little bit less about you.
Here's an idea; you can kill yourself. PROBLEM SOLVED. For real, that's a disgusting habit though; maybe you should at least put forth effort to change or at least reverse that, if you feel that it's wrong [which it most definitely is] Eventually, world will get around, or you'll become to old to rely on your looks/charm, and girls will eventually lose interest in you and won't find it flattering. Be more sensitive and less based on the physical. Get your priorites straight, dude. Find other interests.
Dude, girls arnt going to wanna be your friend if you keep that up. Just get one girlfriend and maybe you won't be flirting so much
Stop being a tease before you meet a girl who will kick your ass wreck your car and kill your pet... Like me!!!! Some girls you don't fuck with and one might cross your path so be careful because" we" are our there!!
UUUUggggg whaT'S WRONG with theese people!!! you guys are being horrible!!! sure its not a nice thing to do but at least he's trying to stop! he's asked you people for advise so he can stop doin it and you whining and winging that he's a perv well guess what you guys have no lifes! why dont you actualy give him some advise so he can stop instead of moaning about the way he acts!!!
Also, those people flipping out and declaring OP is a scumbag watch too much trashy television.
Sometimes if you're used to interacting with the opposite sex in only an intimate, romantic way, it's hard to switch that off. It's almost a habit. I've found myself occasionally flirting with girl friends but I'm usually aware of it after and it irritates me.
You're not consciously 'leading them on' or 'giving the wrong impression', it's just sometimes an instinctive way to behave that you have to try and avoid. Girls do it to guys too. You'll minimise the number of hearts hurt and friendships damaged if you focus all your flirting on only those you want to be with in that way.
Its normal, when it comes to friends some people prefer different things. for instance I prefer my friends to be guys. they make better friends for me. I have a friend(girl) who prefers friends to be guys. but I do know some girls who prefer friends to be girls.
hmmm i had quite alot of girls as friends and everyone said i flirted with them all even though i didnt purposly but i gueess i must of leaded them on without relising lol