Is it normal to see escorts

I have been married for 41 years. 31 had been with out sex. After our last child the wife has had no interest in sex. When I was in my late 30, early 40 I was going to leave but I stayed because of the kids. Now that I paid for there college and there on there own, I have been seeing escorts. Am I wrong? I was loyal to the wife until the kids moved out.

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Comments ( 24 )
  • Redcoats

    Time to move on buddy.

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  • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk

    i crashed into a ford escort once

    i shouldve stayed home and hired a real escort and it wouldve been cheaper

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    • gloryholeflasher

      I had a one night stand in the apartment I shared with my GF. Then I got promoted at work, got a raise, and was able to buy another night stand, so we could have one on each side of the bed.

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    • buttlicker22

      LOL

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    • eastbeast

      I have owned a few, including a very rare 1300 GT.

      I haven't seen an Escort for many years though.

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      • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk

        the one I hit were an exp what hadta be late 80s if it makes any difference

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  • RoseIsabella

    What about talking to the wife, was that ever an option?

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    • buttlicker22

      Yes, I've talked to her, with no results. She just has no interest. I can't remember when we kissed last.

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  • green_boogers

    Escorts are an expensive short term solution. You need a long term solution.

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  • VinnyB

    I don't see how the age of your children when you decided to start cheeting on your wife is relevant in any way. If you are looking for a pat on the back for being such a great guy for staying with your family and cheeting instead of leaving them all together, you won't get it from me.

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    • mlbryan44

      Your opinion is worth fuckall anyway!

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      • VinnyB

        You're certainly welcome to feel that way. Thanks for sharing your feelings.

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  • R19

    What doe this have to do with having an escort?

    Aren't you too old for an escort, I'm sure you can do stuff on your own without being escorted. Unless you are very old in which case a nurse is better suited , you may need medication and they are better for that.

    Nobody over the age of 12 needs an escort.

    Unless if it's for a PG-13 movie or higher.

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  • Aries

    you could always put jam on one half of her ass cheek on the right or left side of her asshole and peanut butter on the opposite than smoosh her cheeks together and make a nice sandwich , this works too

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  • Aries

    try to re kindle things if your still in love / love her but if not .. move on buddy , escorts are a large expense that could be better used taking your wife out on a date and getting her into the bedroom . You should try licking her asshole for a nice long period of time until she is wet enough to taste her pussy juice .. maybe this will cheer her up

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  • kelili

    I think that your wife probably knows that you get sex elsewhere but simply refuse to admit it because the present situation is okay for her. And with escorts there would be no emotional attachment. Only one advice - keep your secret secret!

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    • buttlicker22

      I don't think she has any idea Kelili, I only go out once a month. We both have our own space. She goes on vacation with her girl friends. I go fishing. She goes shopping and out to eat with GF's, I go boating.
      We always gave each other our own space

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  • theseeker

    What's stopping you from leaving now then? Rather than seeing escorts behind your wife's back, tell her what's up, and leave if you have to.

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    • buttlicker22

      To darn expensive and where would I go?

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      • theseeker

        For all you know, she could be sleeping with other guys if she won't have sex with you. Plus, I personally couldn't live like that, living a lie. Whatever the case, it's not a healthy relationship that you're in, and doesn't seem like a happy one. Regardless of how expensive it might be, if you're not happy I think it's best for you to start planning your exit strategy.

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  • ginsters110

    She hasn't fucked you for 31 years, bitch. How did you stay with her?
    Go out and get laid, lots.

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  • noid

    No.

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  • gummy_jr

    Time to put the spark back in your marriage

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    • mlbryan44

      A gum-job might do it!

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