Is it normal to search for clues/proof my bf was jacking off

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Okay so I'm in a relationship we seem to growing apart.Lately (past year or so)we have less sex and honestly its awkward for me when we do because he always masturbates every chance he gets or if I'm gone sometimes he even leaves and stays away claiming he's doing something else but I know he's lying he watches porn mostly anal and he jacks off and sticks objects in his ass!!?I KNOW he does this IV tried telling him how when he sneaks or hides it from me that makes it weird.I even tried putting a finger into his anus since obviously he's into it but he continues to sneak and do it I guess my little finger didn't bring much pleasure since he's inserted much larger objects(hammer,sticks,markers ECT)he hides these things and his concocted lubes all around.it really is annoying to keep coming across oil covered things or oily door knob it pisses me off if I even. Suspect he's been doing it but when he leaves I look and usually find the proof.Iwould have been open to the new desire..i guess but he's made it even weirder than before he also ruined porn for us

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  • anti-hero
    10 years ago

    Here's some proof he's a guy. Of course he was jacking off.

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  • dom180
    10 years ago

    Your partner's masturbation isn't ever your business.

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  • SkullsNRoses
    10 years ago

    What's wrong with masterbating? It's healthy and normal. And expecting your boyfriend never to watch porn is pretty unrealistic.

    As long as he's not getting other people to help him with this I'd say you have nothing to worry about.

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  • zenji
    10 years ago

    Tell him you want to participate if you do. He's probably worried you'll think he's a pervert or something. Learn to find his prostrate with you forefinger, it's not difficult to do and he'll love you for it :).

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  • Iwannasd
    10 years ago

    Try SUCKING cock

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    • peterr
      10 years ago

      Right on!!!

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    • UnabashedUser
      6 years ago

      Try chugging cock, slurping ballsack, and fucking his asshole with your thumb at the same time. When he cums, look him right in the eye, make yummy sounds as you gargle the cum and blow bubbles, then swallow. Keep his stomach full and his balls empty.

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  • (s)aint
    10 years ago

    He shouldn't have less sex with you and masturbate more though ...

    Why don't people that's together TALK anymore? :L COMMUNICATION, ask him what he wants out of you in bed, maybe he doesn't even want to be with you sexually ...

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  • Agirlsbestfriend.
    10 years ago

    He shouldn't be backing up on the door handles though, you don't want shit-fingers any time you close the bedroom door. That's a deal breaker for me.

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