Is it normal to search for a true love???

I'm 18 years old,I have been played and cheated on so many times.I'm tired of all dating thing because....all guys want from me is sex but I want true love that needs time and patience.I don't know...maybe I'm just crazy...because I want true loving,compassionate and honest guy...and not a copy of those assholes....

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  • Ldizzy1234

    Same here!(hand raised) I want love that will be FOREVER! I don't want a guy that wants just a piece of ass. I want the real deal. I want someone to talk to about real life, actual problems. I want true love.

    And when I get into a relationship with the real deal, RIDE or Die baby!

    I know a lot of people who tell me that they're not the relationship types, and I know a lot of girls who "hookup" with a lot of guys they've just met at a party, and then leave them behind/get left behind. Not me. I don't want a one night stand. I want someone who actually cares. And I'm not into the mind gaming tricks that players use. If I show I care, thats it. I mean it. So yeah, it's normal that you feel that way. You're just sick of being used. That's normal. Nobody wants/likes to be used, and treated like they're garbage to be thrown away. The heart is a serious organ, NOT to be played with.

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    • home

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  • Vforvendetta

    Everything happens for a reason.. Keep that attitude & it will take to what you really want from a person.. Gudluck!

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  • rayst

    Ppl who say guys your age are all immature and need to grow up are plain wrong. There are many youngsters who are way more mature than older guys. I was with a lover and she left me because she wanted to get more guys, live her life... All the girls i got since then only wanted sex, no relationship, i think girls are worse

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  • The only way to get a quality guy is to not be sexual until you get to know him (and his family) really, really well. Test him. If he pushes you for sexual favors and doesn't even know your favorite color, he is a loser. Do yourself a favor and move on to the next guy. Sleeping around only gets you STDs, knocked up, and a bad reputation.

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  • Sotchi

    So true, girls do mature faster, and also, it was when I finally got fed up and decided to take time away from relationships (I was 25) to just focus on me that I met my boyfriend now who I've been with for 5 years and love so much. I think when we're not looking, our expectations are higher and we don't settle for as much bullshit.

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  • cleo7

    Im 23 and have only had 3 bfs all long term. Each one if them I have found when I wasn't expecting it. If you go looking chances are u will not find. The right guy will find you. The thing is u need to be happy on your own before u can be happy with someone else

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  • howaminotmyself

    18 year old boys still have a lot of growing up to do. But love isn't something that one needs to seek out, it will come to you when you least expect it. Just enjoy life and love will find you.

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  • cal1swwag

    Women are 10 yrs more mature than men. In Jewish communities husbands are always 10 -15 yrs older than their wives because they know n 18 y.o boy is has the mind of an 8 year old lol. Think About it, when a girl gets her first boyfriend they are already writing his last name as her own. She has already decided that she wants to spend the rest of her life with that mAn...you will have some waiting to do before you find that right guy

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  • bigguy2010

    Hang in there, young lady. Somewhere, Mr. Right is looking for the exact kind of relationship you are. With patience, you will meet him, but it will be at a time when you are not looking for him and least expect him.

    That's how I met my wife. Only she was Mrs. Right and I was the guy. Don't get me wrong, she's still Mrs. Right. And I'm still a guy. I'm just going to shut up now.

    Best Wishes!!!

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  • pitterpatter

    You're still pretty young. And most guys around your age still need to mature some more, before they get in a serious relationship or anything.

    Remember; Patience is a virtue!

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