Is it normal to screw everyone over?

I have a compulsion to screw over everyone who enters my life. I mean, everyone! Casual acquaintances, neighbors, employers, co-workers, wannabe friends, even family. I have to beat them somehow, it can be financially, emotionally, giving them any sort of hardship, wasting their time/resources.

It's uncontrollable and it happens with great ease on my part. In my mind I see it play out instantly like a chess game, making moves and predicting what they'll do and compensating for that to make sure I win. It literally happens in seconds. It's like I know how the game is going to end, I know all the moves too but I have to go along as if everything is totally normal while the plan unfolds. That can be the hardest part, the waiting for it to all come together depending on how long the game is. Some games are quick and others go on for years. It's also fun because I know this person's future and they're completely unaware~~~it's almost a God-like feeling. They have no idea what's coming, no clue that I'm right in front of their face smiling like nothing's up but I'm about to crush them. Most of the time I can either be undetected (they don't know who/what is responsible for all of these bad things happening to them) or sometimes I even convince them that whatever happened was their fault and they end up apologizing to me for it all. Many have been screwed over more than once by me.

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Comments ( 28 )
  • disthing

    No. That's pathetic and malicious behaviour, the kind archetypical of sociopaths.

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    • willyma

      Sociopath is bang on the word i was looking for. This is really sad, that there're people in the world like this.

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    • This is the answer I get most frequently on IIN.

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      • megadriver

        So you like being a dick to everyone for no obvious reason? Well, you know what they say... Every man meets their match!
        One day someone is going to screw you up good...

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  • Terence_the_viking

    I hope you love being lonely.

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  • GODofGod

    Screw them in the asshole.

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    • PedoBear1.0

      No, if I get fucked over by someone. Boom. No loose ends. I remove them from my life in any and all ways. You lose people and friends that way.
      ^^Although your solution is seemingly valid as well ^^

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  • craigtucker

    You sound like the type of person who romanticizes sociopathy /narcissism because it makes you feel edgy and interesting. All of those instances of you "screwing everyone over" are most likely in your head, and you probably aren't as big a deal as you think you are.

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  • I dont think this is good, but in a way it's normal. I know lots of people who do stuff like this.
    I have caught people doing similar things to me and in the end they lost because I will no longer do shit for them. They would have gotten much more out of me if they didnt screw me over. Examples I can give is people who have stayed at my house and stolen from me who I kicked out. If they didnt fuck me over, I would have let them mooch off me more as long as they continued to do their part of the chores, but instead they made actions that made me choose to get rid of them.
    Whatever you do, make sure that they dont ever find out what you are doing or you will burn all your bridges and then regret your actions in the end.

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  • Junesong

    You're clinically a psychopath.

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  • lemoncity

    You'd make a great Kira.

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  • ChaoticBunny

    I bet you have no friends...
    Enjoy being lonely :(

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  • SmartBecauseIveLearned

    Just remember:

    What goes around, comes around.

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  • Roboard27

    Do I think that your mind operating in this way is normal? No. I will not however sit here and disrespect you or diagnose the issue. I will only say I believe some part of it stems from anxiety. For you to feel the constant pressure to "Beat", the next person or "Out-do", them at all cost shows you are endlessly worried. I myself deal with anxiety in a different form. It's something that is far from controllable at times and can make you think in ways most ever would. I do suggest you search help because if the possible outcomes of screwing over unpredictable people. I wish you the best with what you face, truly I do. As for anyone to comment and include a simple minded comment such as @Disthing or @NeuroNeptunian take a second to understand that we are all different that's why we are on this site. Doesn't make you any better than the next, and you really don't know how hard somethings mentally are to deal with or overcome.

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  • iheartu2013

    Get help! You may need medication and counseling...or on the sad note you may he a sociopath. But because you are asking for help, I don't think you are. But there is probably an imbalance somewhere. Please get some help!

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  • Breeana

    That's just sad im not gonna call u pathedic or anything but i think u need to talk to someone about why you feel you need to do this or why it gives you joy

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  • Wh0Ar3YoU

    get deep inside their angus

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  • Shroot

    Basically...

    Put your dick in a kettle

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  • Crazy-guy

    I sometimes wish I was like u but, I cant coz its too bad for u and the ones you screw .

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  • NeuroNeptunian

    No.
    I would also advise against it. I know it seems great and all and everyone that thinks like you is all like "Ohh, I have a career, I am totally independent, I will never need anyone's help" and it's funny in a sad way to watch them get laid off all of a sudden, lose their home and then go and whine about how no one is ever there for them.

    You don't wanna be that guy. Don't screw people over. You never know, you might need them someday.

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    • I can and do very successfully live off of others, I'm not worried.

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      • NeuroNeptunian

        Then that's a better reason not to screw others over o.o; But if they're masochists and they will let you then yolo, wear a condom.

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        • I don't understand. I live off of them so I am screwing them over. Rather, you don't understand, may be more accurate.

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          • NeuroNeptunian

            How is it screwing them over if they're allowing it?

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            • Because it's carried out by deceptive means. They allow it because they think they are going to benefit, or be paid back, or I've played on their emotions. Whatever they think they're going to get from me will never be realized. I do have to give some sometimes to keep the ball rolling but I never give much.

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  • Saycheese

    Nope, you need help.

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  • RougeTheBat

    I read something about this on cracked.com...and no thats not normal, thats fucked up.

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