Is it normal to say no to my boyfriend

My boyfriend asked me to have sex with him and am really not even ready havent even thought abt it now am angry at him and he does not want to talk to me am i doing a good thing am so not ready at all wat should i do he thinks i dont love him

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Based on 38 votes (34 yes)
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Comments ( 14 )
  • Beastmodementality

    Just do whatever the fuck you want girl,I'm 21 and I'll still take shit slow,but I don't do relationships.Lets break it down in laymence terms "I can't put my dick in you so you must not love me" doesn't make a lot of sense.

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  • GiveMeAFuckingNameAlready!

    Your not the one with the problem. The kid your dating is. If this is a recurring issue maybe you should move on to someone more compatible.

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  • Taylorrr

    Sex isn't sex without consent, don't let him guilt trip you if you're not ready you're not ready simple as that

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    • You are lucky you are 'OR'

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  • Ellenna

    Forget him, he doesn't respect you. The "you don't love me if you won't do what I want" is the oldest manipulative trick in the book and you're smart not to fall for it

    Turn it around: do you think he loves you when he's trying to get you to do something you don't want to do?

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    • RoseIsabella

      That's just what I was thinking, you're awesome, Ellenna!
      >:-D

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      • Ellenna

        And so are you RoseIsabella!

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  • dick555

    Get rid of him. There is a lot of time and a lot of guys out there who will wait until you are ready for sex.

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  • GeekyGold

    If he loves you he will understand and put that aside until your ready, don't let this bother you and don't give in if your not ready. Be strong I support you:)

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  • wistfulmaiden

    Nobody should have sex cause they feel forced to do it. You're not wrong. Of course most guys will try to persuade you but it's your choice.

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  • Wanting to have sex with your partner is normal. Not wanting to have sex until you're ready is also normal.

    If this is something that happens a lot then perhaps you two should split so that you can find someone who is willing to wait for you and he can be with someone he can fuck.

    Simples.

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  • daydreamer394

    Sex doesn't always correspond with love.

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  • thegypsysailor

    Sounds like neither one of you is old enough for a relationship.
    There's no way you should be doing anything you don't want to, and it's perfectly normal that he's disappointed, but what's with all the drama?

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  • theylickedme

    Guy's will say anything for some pussy. Would he be your first? If not fuck him to see if you want to keep him.

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