Is it normal to say "i love you" after your first kiss?

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About 4 and a half years ago I had my very first kiss. The girl and I liked each other very much before we started dating despite the fact that we only knew each other for like, a week. My first kiss was on my very first date; it was a long passionate French kiss. After the second kiss, when we were hugging each other, I told her in a low voice that I loved her and she said it back too. Most people I know said these three words after a month or two, but not me, I said them almost immediately because I really felt that way about her. Is it normal to have said "I love you" so soon?

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  • AbnormallyAwesome
    10 years ago | pl

    Why do people make such a big deal about this? It's just a freaking feeling. You say "I love you" when you love somebody just like you say "I'm hungry" when you are hungry. It's not a proposal.

    So if you really felt it - Awesome!

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  • Paradiddle
    10 years ago

    I think this is normal. Having those 3 words said may seem like it requires some fairy tail never-ending affection but that is unrealistic. If at that very point in time you felt like that and meant it then that is great!

    Still, I had someone tell me that and then we ended up ending things really soon after that. I took those words heavier than she did unfortunately so you have to really mean it.

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  • Elliemental
    10 years ago

    If you feel it there's nothing wrong with saying it, sounds like it was very quick but there is no time frames when it comes to falling in love.

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  • Alexis223
    10 years ago

    some people (older) judge the word love very harsh! this is because they feel a different type of love to the love of younger people! this can be the same with friends it may be the way the word love has been used around them. a 18 year old can still be in love but it is a different love than a 25 year old. same goes for most ages. that is why people would most likely judge you for it! it is completely normal to say it when u feel like u do. if that feeling is there than why not tell them!

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    some people say it under their breath at the first sight

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  • NotThatInnocent
    10 years ago

    Puppy love. lol

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Just say it whenever you want, but never feel it.

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  • Devyn
    10 years ago

    It means different things to different people. The offence is caused when you say it too early to someone who takes it to be more significant than you actually meant it to be.

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  • lifebattler
    10 years ago

    I think you're confusing being attracted and liking her for love.The question is,what is love? in your case.

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  • mixwell
    10 years ago

    You lust her not love her. You had only known her a week ? Lucky you didn't set off her desperate creeper radar

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    • metallover1991
      10 years ago

      That was pretty rude. For your information, she gave me numerous signals that she liked me. She practically made every move, what I did was ask her out. She held my hand, she hugged me and kissed my cheek all the time with me doing the same thing back, and she was the one who moved her lips closer to mine. I've had a few major and I do mean major crushes way back, but that girl made me feel special, and kissing her was possibly the best thing to have happened to me.

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  • DandyElfman
    10 years ago

    If they say it so soon they are probobly lying to you.

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