Is it normal to save sex for marriage?

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Ok so I'm 29 years old an I've never really.."been with a man" I've been in relationships but every time I was in them an whenever it came up to that point (mind you it's usually in the first 3 months of dating) I end up acting distant by this time they are so fucked up because they can't get it that they act like an asshole,so naturally I cut complete contact...I hope that one day I will get married and do it for love ...and if i could respectively ask a favor to whomeever reads this to not make fun of me, and no I'm not omish,highly religious or part of some weired cult...thank you in advance

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Based on 309 votes (209 yes)
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  • nAt2017
    11 years ago

    Yes. I want to give myself away to the person I love and spend the rest of my life with.

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  • bigguy2010
    11 years ago

    My wife was my first. I waited 27 years for her. Then she cheated on me.

    When I found out, she told me to kiss her ass. I said I already had and it's no big deal.

    What she said next wasn't very nice.

    The moral of the story... She would have been worth the wait if she was a nice girl. Like you. Your husband will be very lucky to marry a woman who hold herself to high standards.

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    • shakernatural
      11 years ago

      Omg that's messed up

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  • TerryVie
    11 years ago

    lookie here:

    http://isitnormal.com/poll/guys-how-long-would-you-wait-for-a-girl-to-be-willing-to-do-it-115910/

    unless most of the guys lied about it, it seems you were rather unlucky in your partners.
    I have a vastly different view and lifestyle than you, but i fully respect what you are doing and wish you the best of luck with waiting for the right person, and knowing the other side of the fence: I believe it to be worth it for you.

    Not exactly normal nowadays to wait that long, but totally acceptable and reasonable! You go, girl!

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  • chainsaw88
    11 years ago

    My mom told me to "test drive the car before you buy it." I remember when she told me this, I was like, "eh?" but now, I know it's a VERY good idea. First guy i had sex with I was like "oh this is great." Then I had sex with my 2nd boyfriend ans was like "HOLY SHIT guy number one sucked." And you might not think so now, but down the line even if it's several years, your mind is going to start wandering.

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  • randypete
    11 years ago

    why wait to find its not good sex with him and you are stuck

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  • HappyApple
    11 years ago

    I believe in that. I'm 20 and still a virgin. =p

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  • zedsdead
    11 years ago

    The question was whether it was normal to save sex until marriage, not whether it's normal to think that's a crazy idea.

    No, it's not normal to wait until marriage to have sex in Western countries.

    Yes, it's okay to do so.

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  • Anime7
    11 years ago

    Saving sex for marriage is normal. However, I believe that you don't need to get married to show someone you love them. If you love someone and they love you, then the moment will be special. Believe me, there are men out there who will respect your choice.

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  • nAt2017
    11 years ago

    Wait for someone you really love. But in my opinion, marriage is more of a sentiment than anything. If you feel ready, then sex is fine. It's a personal decision.

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  • ashley4948
    11 years ago

    Wait for someone you truly love, no matter how long it takes.

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  • Lola1984
    11 years ago

    Thanks so much everyone!:) I feel so much better on my decision ,as the relationship I was in was very pressured to do that,and I said no so he said he doesn't want to be with me no more an that as he puts it "I need a women and I don't want to baby sit" he said sorry when he called and I texted once after that like everything was normal an he didn't follow through since text,call or communicate at all after that,so I let it go,I was questioning if I did anything wrong but you all helped me a lot thanks again

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  • ECarminan
    11 years ago

    Not in this time where pretty much everyone's fucking pretty much anybody.

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