Is it normal to rush things in life?

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I'm 21 years old and clearly I don't have a life. I don't have a drivers license, no car and no job as of now but I believe this will make my life go round. I live with my dad and stepmother and they both work a lot. I really want to get my dad to take me to a class to drive so I can move on with my life but my dad says it takes time and not to go too fast with this after getting excited that he will do this.

I don't have a high school friends to chat with or anybody to talk to so I spend times alone reading books I have little to no interest in.

I'm just venting but can or could you relate it?

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  • JazzDiva
    7 years ago

    It may take time because you need to get a job to pay for insurance to get your id. At least tend college. How can you be 21 and still worried about "friends" and "highschool life". You"ll never mature into a man until you move out and start acting like it. You can do it!

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  • Rusty-Rider
    7 years ago

    I can relate to it.
    You're a bum who reads books.

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  • Short4Words
    7 years ago

    Do you really need your parents to take the course?

    Cant you bus?

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  • mysistersshadow
    7 years ago

    Not having a car a licence or job isn't exactly rushing things.

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  • riffraffy
    7 years ago

    Remember this feeling, because it can get worse and it is fatal if left untreated.

    It's called unfulfillment, and you've already found a cure. You can't trick yourself into happiness—you have to suffer a little, improve yourself a little each day, and you can't rely on anyone else. You have to accomplish things, like getting a driver's license.

    Being able to drive yourself around won't just make you more independent and happy. It will make you satisfied about who you are.

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  • ........
    7 years ago

    Yeah these things happen with us in life
    with me i quit Business School cause the
    course was too hard, i developed paranoia
    extreme anxiety, from age 19-45 i bounced
    around going to different doctors for medical
    and mental health issues..I go out for walks
    but i feel like this non-existing feeling
    i was told i have Disassociation disorder,
    Bipolar, Depression, Anxiety..I just wish
    that i could wake up from this dream like
    state of mind that I often go in and there
    is times it can worst than other times but
    this has been happening since my teen years
    but i never learned to drive cause i believe
    the anxiety part of my illness is what is
    causing me to experience these things.

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