Is it normal to reject the girl you love because of her boyfriend

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There's a girl I truly like and I think she likes me aswel. I've been flirting with her the past week but she told me she has a bf but it doesn't look like she cares much about him.

In my previous relationship which was around 2 years ago, I got cheated on and I remember being mad at the guy, more than the girl. I thought if no guy would sleep with girls with engagements. There would be no problem.

So I took a vow(not epic at all i know) that I'd never even be close friends with a girl who has a boyfriend.

Reminding this, I got angry at myself for almost breaking it and at her for not being faithful and basically told her off.

Do you think it was the right decision?

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    12 years ago

    Remember.... if she cheats on her BF to be with you what's to stop her from doing that to you later?

    Voltaire sums it up best in his song "About a girl"

    you learn a lot about a girl they way you meet her
    was she with a guy when you met her? how did she treat him?
    was she lying to her man to be out holding your hand?
    yeah, you learn a lot about a girl

    do you really believe that with you it will be different?
    man, listen to me, i did that too, now it's her that i'm missing
    i'm a guy that she lied to, soon enough that guy will be you
    yeah, you learn a lot about a girl

    was it a nice, clean, even split before you and she got into it?
    yeah, you learn a lot about a girl

    now here's a fact that is true: all men are dumb, all woman are crazy
    hey, open your eyes, if you don't see this you're just being lazy
    she's no saint as you can see
    cuz she's out with you while she's living with me
    yeah, you learn a lot, don't hink you will not
    yeah, you learn a lot about a girl

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  • RubyCane
    12 years ago

    You got guts, boy! Guts, Dignity and Respect!!! That's rare nowadays so congrats... ;)

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  • SEWnanist23
    12 years ago

    Keep it solitaire buddy

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  • BoredGuy
    12 years ago

    you did right, but the 3rd person is never the problem or even at fault, the whore/asshole that is at fault.

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  • TareBear20
    12 years ago

    I think it was the right choice. Let's say you two are together for a while and she starts to have a thing for someone else. You'd be in the same shoes as her ex. It's a vicious cycle...

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