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Im in college and starting sleeping with a girl Im really good friends with. We wheel almost every weekend but never talk about what it means, what were doing or what we are to one another. We even frequently talk about people we're trying to get with, yet end up in bed together. Is this normal?
Ive done this dance many times, with 20 or so girls. Not one of them has an ill feeling towards me. There is a true art to keeping the friends with benefits thing casual and non toxic however. Be careful try to figure out what she is really trying to do. But honestly to me, sounds like u found a classic slut, as long as you dont mind, or get to attached all will be good. However, she will fuck other guys and feel no remorse, so just know that
I have a buddy who gives me blowjobs at least thrice a week. Yet we ain't dating, so it's pretty normal I'd say.
Dude that is what you call a fuck-buddy. Fun sex with no strings attached,as long as your not cheating on anyone to make it wrong, trust me you're lucky.
I wouldn't call it normal but it happens. You are friends with benefits. And as it goes with friends with benefits it's always dangerous territory to broach the subject of "what it means" or what you mean to eachother.
If either one of you confesses to wanting more, to wanting a relationship maybe, but the other doesn't want this, your sweet deal could get messed up. And it doesn't even have to be because either one of you doesnt care enough about the other to consider a relationship, but some people just have commitment issues, and the feel of being in a relationship or confessing to serious feelings can change everything.
Watch the film friends with benefits. Emotions will happen at some point. Good luck
Well sounds like your enjoying yourself haha! That's all that matters right? But if she gets with someone it would be considered cheating.. Don't hurt people (:
Very normal and you're pretty lucky. She may talk about it b/c she may think this is what u want and doesn't want to ruin a good thing. If u get angry or jealous if u see her with another guy, then yall need to talk.
I think it would be nice to talk about it, though it simply means FWB. They generally don't end well...friendship never last afterwards.
It would be akward.....
Hey,,,,,,,, Remember when we slept that one time?
Partner,,,,, Which one?
You,,,,,, (no response)
I'd say it's pretty normal for college, I usually do try to talk about that shit at least a little after hookups just so both parties have a clear idea of what they were looking for in the experience. I wouldn't want anyone to have their feelings hurt or anything like that.
But if you guys are hooking up on a weekly basis you should probably at least have a dialouge about it, make sure both of you are on the same page.
I'm in the same situation.
My main concern is that, when one or both of us enters a relationship with someone else, our friendship will have to cease because of the sexual history.
I don't know how common the whole fuck-buddy thing is but it certainly happens. As long as you both know where you stand with one another i.e. neither of you are expecting more than the other, feeling more than the other etc. then it's all good.