Is it normal to regret what i do with my bf?

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I have been seeing my bf for about a month now. Whenever we are together we have a great time and have a lot of fun with each other. When we do what we do I am really into it and for the most part super comfortable. But after a couple of days when I think about what we did I second guess myself and almost feel bad but I don't know why. He really is a great guy. Is this normal?

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  • Pandapants
    9 years ago

    That's not good. You're probably not as ready as you think you are and you need to wait until you know you're ready. Talk to him about it. If he really cares and loves you, he'll understand and wait. If he doesn't do or feel any of that, good. You're better off finding out now what kind of man he is than years from now.

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  • crazy_asiknowit
    11 years ago

    don't do it if ur nt comfrtable with wat u do

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    13 years ago

    First of all you need to be up front with "When we do what we do"

    If you aren't comfortable with admitting to sexual activities - be it full sex, heavy petting, oral stimulation... then you're not ready for any of it.

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  • notthenorm
    13 years ago

    Thanks for all the comments btw they really help me place my thoughts :)

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  • notthenorm
    13 years ago

    I am 16 and he is 18. We don't go too far I'm still a virgin. Whenever I am with him all my regrets go away but when I think about it a feel guilty. I think it might be because I was brought up to think that is was wrong but it can't be wrong when it's completely consensual.

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  • oscard
    13 years ago

    These feelings can be cause by many things, you are too young, you don't really have feelings for him, or your upbringing. You need to figure out why it is bothering you. Think about it and discover why you are feeling guilty. I will not say stop, or continue because only you have the answers. Many women simply have difficulty enjoying sex because of upbringing, if you are old enough to actually be having sex and this is the reason then you can work on the sexual hangups you were raised with.

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  • thegift
    13 years ago

    I'm sure your new boyfriend knows what is best for you.

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  • buckman
    13 years ago

    You're not really ready. So stop. If he cares, he'll understand. If he doesn't understand, then you have your answer as to why you keep feeling regret.

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