Is it normal to regret this everyday?

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I ignored my gf who i was completely in love with for like 2 years because I believed some random friend of mine that they got high and hooked up and he told me she talked shit about me to him idr exactly but it wasnt at a good time between me and my gf so i believed him. Then when i became close to her (kinda had to since we had the same friends basically) i told her why i completely shut myself off from her and she said "i have no respect for you, i never loved you so leave me alone". i regret this everyday and dream about it and its been another year since and i drunk call her all the time. IIN? should i let go even though it was not my fault exactly? I apologizedd :( btw sorry for being so long. just wondering what people other than my friends think

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Based on 19 votes (7 yes)
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  • ms_babygirl23
    13 years ago

    She said leave her alone. Its been years...let it go.

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  • Wierdmyself
    13 years ago

    Its normal... just not healthy. Just learn from it and move on. There'll b plenty opportunities, the best way to feel sorry for something stupid u did is to never do it to someone else.

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  • D-Fib
    11 years ago

    She never loved you. She proved it by hooking up with your friend and then admitting this to you after. Why would your friend lie?

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  • narwhalkisses
    13 years ago

    awh, this really touched me. I know how you feel. Always making that one mistake that just somehow fucks up the relationship because you care too much. THEN, you call them over and over again. The best adivce I can give you, is to move on. It's hard, seems impossible, I know but if she doesn't want to be with you, it wasn't mean to be. Atleast not now.

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  • SwimBikeRun
    13 years ago

    I think if it's something you regret you should tell her. If she shuts you down then leave her alone for good. That means no more drunk dials. Take her out of your phone. I think if you don't try you will always wonder. But take the hint if she's not into it.

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  • anya07
    13 years ago

    Its your fault.You should find out something then believe others.She was the one who loved you and you didnt appreciate it.If you love her struggle or else all the rest of your life you ill say IF ONLY I WOULD TRY

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  • kellstar
    13 years ago

    You screwed up and said sorry, move on.

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  • Gardenia
    13 years ago

    Your fault bud. Too bad... Move on.

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  • harrypotterdork22
    13 years ago

    you should let it go. if she doesnt love u , than its not meant to be. you deserve better

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