Is it normal to regret sex?

That's rape and you should report it.
Marry him? Do you really want to marry a boy who took your virginity by rape? Be serious.

Thanks everyone. I did break up with him. I told him what he did was disrespectful and I couldn't be with him anymore. I am done with boys for a while.

He's a total prat!!

Dump him at once!! I hate to tell you this but as he couldn't control himself he is technically a rapist. He is now expecting to have sex with you on every single occasion - just that what's little boys think.

If he tells his mates that you two 'did it' - tell your friends that he's a liar! He wanted to but you said no, what's he going to do? Tell them he raped you!! That's not what you want for your first experience of sex so just wipe it out of your memory (and him to). You don't need to even contemplate marrying such a total waster!!

Forget about it and him, move on unless you're going to pursue a charge of rape.

You will get over it, as he was a boyfriend, be glad it wasn't a stranger and that you're not pregnant. Worse things happen.

Your feelings are normal, but he raped you. Think about how important is your virginity, and, don't you want to MAKE LOVE to your husband?
If he says no, would you ignore him? He has to understand you, and more important respect you.

My friend took a mutual friend home. When she got there, she'd sobered up a bit and realised it was a mistake. She wanted to say no but felt she couldn't because she'd led him on. Situations like this are difficult, especially when feelings are running high. But you do have the right to say no at any time and if you are forced to do it against your will, technically it's a crime. I think your boyfriend needs a short, sharp shock. Whether seven years in jail is appropriate is debatable, but I know there are some who'd argue for this. And I know I could be persuaded either way.

You said no....it was rape. Dump him, and possibly take legal action. It wasn't right. I'm sorry you had to go through that. =(

It's normal to feel this way. What happened isn't normal though.

Lol sorry but u don't let a guy kiss u and c u naked and get turned af then when he's in u say no let's stop ... wtf 😂😂 srsly ! If u don't wanna lose ur virginity u shouldn't get naked in a first place ... No wonder he's proud he didn't love u in a first place i bet he made a bet with his friends that he could take ur v card ... If he loved u and he knew that u r not ready for sex yey he wouldn't hv started it ...

When i was 14yrs old me and my cousin snuck out the house she was just 1yr younger than me . And she hooked me up with a 19yr old and i got so attached to him me &her would sneak out to see our bfs &we would drive to her bfs house and me&my. Bf would go to a room or her &her bf would stay in car we take turns in the room but i never really wanted sex until he came unto me he would always try and me just to fight the feeling one night i laid there and let him do it ... Sometimes i feel bad but it was a great experience but i would think sometimes i should of waited maybe or do it with the man i love and i hated him for not using protection and almost getting me pregnant is when i told my mom in bitter tears i lost my virginity to a guy ididnt love

really now.ok he was horny and a dumbass.dump him because you dont deserve something like that,and try to get over it,by forgetting he even exists.And what is this crap about marrying him?marriage is something that happens because two people love and respect each other,not because he was an asshole and he fucked you even when you said no.

yes, what you are feeling is completley normal...
he should have stopped but he didn't... most men need a LOT of self controll to stop themselves when things get that far... but don't let yourself be used.

i regret my first time... but i am the man. she was far more... experienced and i didn't last very long. but i still regret being with her because i would rather have waited...
the girl i am with now has never been with a man and i plan to make her first time special and memorable... and when she is ready for it

well first of all he apparently didnt care you said no and told him to stop. When me and my x did it for the first time I asked her a few times if she was ok. Btw dont be dumb and marry the guy you have sex with thats just stupid. Being a virgin is just a word dont take it so seriously

You shouldn't feel like you need to marry anyone. On the rape issue, it depends if you "feel raped" or not. To me, from the days of crying, it sounds like you feel that it was rape. If he's reasonable about it, then you can go back to him, but don't let your guard down. If you think it was malicious, then call the police. DEFINATELY don't marry him.

I dont care how serious or intense it is no means No, me and my girlfriend have been dating for 8 months now and no matter what i would never do that to her i hate to say this but he doesnt give a fuck about you just your vigina i know this sounds harsh but please take everyones advice and DUMP HIS ASS!!!!!!!!!

Well this sounds so sad :( you said no. Technically it's rape but the amount of times my boyfriend has ignored my no's when it hurt makes me think it's not. I don't know. It's a toughie. I hope you will feel better soon.

So let met get this straight... You've been talking about having sex for a bit, you were intensely making out with him, he essentially got his head inside of you before you said no?
I'm gonna go out on a limb and say that he was in the wrong, but you almost definitely shouldn't have put yourself in that position.
So, my advice: fuck him. Not fuck him off, properly fuck him, and enjoy it. Lets be honest, sex is the most fun you can have with your partner, and everyone does it. Conservative, religious, whatever, everyone has kids at some point. Get curious and interested in what he has to offer, and make the next time a much better experience.
If you've convinced yourself that you have to love someone to have sex with them, fuck that, love doesn't exist.

He shouldn't have done it, but a man in that position, as understand he had his dickhead in your pussy, then you decided to say no? I would probably need massive will power to stop but probly i would... then ditch you for being a nutcase.

Leave him! It IS rape!

Piss on his face, girl and get him fucked up!

Yes it is very normal to regret sex. I did when I first had sex at 13. I did a lot of things when I was 13, just learning about my sexuality and other stuff. But I am not like that no more. So, now I can move on with my life each and every day.

It defintly is normal to regret that expesially if you don't stay with him

I mean kill him

I understand the thoughts that you should marry him. But he doesn't care about your feelings, he only wanted to have sex.
When you do find a guy that respects you, and cares about your feelings, he won't care that your not a virgin, he will love you regardless

thats really not okay, you have the right to say no, no matter when. and if he slept with you against your will, you should really consider breaking up. i think you've heard that before, but if he really loves you, he should be able to wait for you.

if his dik is big then marry his ass..if its a little weener then find a hung stud girl

You would not believe how many stories like yours I heard in my life.
Practically most girls I knew were not fully convinced when they did it the first time. For some guys if a girl is reluctant it is even better. Don't ask me why, it would be too hard explaining it. But matter of fact it is like that.
As for your experience, it could not be considered date rape since you have not been drugged or incapacitated by him in any way. That of course doesn't mean it isn't a reproachful situation. I would not reccomend you keep dating this guy. Apparently he is the kind of guy who thinks he can just take what he wants without caring much about what you think. And I don't think that's the kind of man you want to spend the rest of your life with. He did not respect your decision the first time so it is only reasonable expecting him to do it again.
Most girls who went through this usually suck it up and move on, the way you are planning to do, deciding whether to leave the guy or stay with him based on how they get treated by them, basically to decide whether the bad experience was worth it or not. Now I don't know about you but I think that's quite fucked up.
I adviced all the girls I knew to stay away from guys who showed signs of being abusive or in any other way who have the tendecy to force and push things without asking what you think and how you feel about it. It can only result in more pushing and ignoring your wishes. It is the kind of guys who would inevitably start ordering you about or manipulating you into doing things and getting mad whenever you do not comply with their orders. Or don't fall for their manipulation techniques. So you might wanna be careful and kind of decide what to do based on what you can forsee.
Anyway, normal. Normal but definitely fucked up.

Get over it!