Is it normal to regret marrying my wife when i meet better women?

I love my wife. She has a very beautiful face and a perfect body. She's loyal, kind, honest, funny and very gentle. When we're together I couldn't imagine being with anyone else. She's not an idiot but she is a little.... I don't know how to say it. She only has a high school diploma. The problem is that when I meet women who are beautiful AND smart, I regret marrying my wife. Especially when these women come on to me. I'd leave her but she's pregnant. Is it normal to question my choice all the time? PS we're both in our twenties.

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  • MochaCriola

    You are a big A*hole >:( !!!!!!
    Poor lady :(

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    • RomeoDeMontague

      This all the way. You are a dick OP.

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  • ummm

    U sound selfish. She doesn't deserve it. Go seek help n leave the poor woman so she can find a man that would appreciate her n value her

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  • randomjelly

    You should leave her...so she isn't stuck with an idiot for the rest of her life.

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  • shes stuck now, shes pregnant, its sad:(

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  • cass

    you are a complete asshole who doesnt deserve a woman what so ever.

    i hope karma comes and bites you in the ass when your wife realizes she can use her looks to get a rich non pathetic man who will treat her like gold

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  • CountryRoads

    It's normal to question your choices...but you knew she was undereducated when you married her. There's always going to be someone more intelligent, more attractive...you choose people because of how you feel, not because of their credentials.

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  • moomus

    I think she got the shitty end of the stick, not you. Do her a favour and leave so she can get a man who respects her totally, who's not "put off" by her lack of education. Have u ever thought, maybe she doesn't think u r such a great catch either?

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  • bleach_baby

    I don't like you, sir. I don't like you at all.

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  • dappled

    I can't believe you'd talk about the woman you love with such casual disregard. And... you'd leave her but she's pregnant? Are you aware how callous that sounds?

    When you were saying your wedding vows, were you actually listening to the words you agreed to?

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  • aussiewolf

    i dont understand why you married her if you think so low about her. were you desperate at the time? did you think like this before you married her? you are a bit young to be going through your mid life crisis, dont you think?
    but i do agree with everyone else. you should leave her to give her the opportunity to find a decent guy who will love her and be loyal and honour her. you are pathetic.

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  • 13ar13ie

    Uu r one of the biggest asswholes on earth if u feel better of with other women then u jst dnt love your wife as much as u say u do cuz if u did u wouldnt b n this situation u shood look at the beauty within ur wife n realize wt u r going a lose

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  • MrsBailey9

    I bet you two were high school sweethearts and grew up together. Married right after graduating... Now you are a little bit older and having doubts. I bet you are scared to death to become a father. All of those responsibilities and decisions to make. I bet you are overwhelmed. You love your wife, but you are questioning your capabilities as a father figure, so it is natural that you would question your wife's capabilities as a mother. I'm sure her hormones are out of control and her behavior has been challenging. Again, the doubts and worries creep up. Ask yourself this," Am I in love with her? Do I still love her as much, if not more, as the day I married her? Can you picture yourself growing old with your wife? How do you envision your future when you think of it? Do you want to give up what you have worked so hard to have? Only you can answer these questions. Only you can decide what to do, and what is right. Only you can have faith in what you have and know that through life we have stumbling blocks and tests to help us grow. Life altering decisions such as this should not be decided in an open forum, but in your heart and soul.

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  • la_uva_mojada

    i think you only married her for her qualities and not because you loved her... sad. for you and the child.. you're a selfish ass wipe

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  • baby_princess

    I agree randomjelly, I feel sorry for her! She deserves a lot more than she's getting.
    Leave her she's better off without you

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  • I find it intriguing that some men actually care about "intelligence" in a relationship.

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  • baby_princess

    Its such a pity she won't find out what an asshole she's married to until its too late,its already too late

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  • I don't get the whole smart thing an u hear it alot soooo if ur partner is an awesome person and ur attraction is great and they make u laugh but oh wait only a hs diploma?well better go fuck sum1 else!lol no sense ur married divorce if ur not happy or be a fucking man an work on your relationship being smart doesn't make u better

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  • RomeoDeMontague

    You have a perfect wife. Who cares if she went to a university. You chose to get her pregnant and marry her. Why do you now suddenly decide that she is not good enough. You should have thought about that before you got married and before you decided to have a child. She deserves a lot better.

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  • Clamantha69

    You're an ASSJACK. You only liked her for what she looks like. You horny bastard. I hope no smart and beautiful likes you ever. asshole.

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  • You should leave her because she deserves someone much better than you

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  • Melloman#2

    IS NORMAL TO QUESTION IT. IF YOU DON'T WANT HER THEN YOU SHOULD GET DIVORCED BUT HELP RAISE THE CHILD!!!!!

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  • GroovyPrincess

    You do not love her!.. simple

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  • Dump her stupid ass and get a girl who knows calculus. Now THAT is sexy.

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  • Clamantha69

    No woman is better than the other. Whores will be whores.

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  • Hard_Candy

    Why did you get married in your 20's dumbass? This isn't 1950. Most guys these days wait til their 30's at least.

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    • RomeoDeMontague

      Not always true. Some people I know got married straight out of highschool.

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  • DumbAss34

    sit down and talk with her about this tell her how you feel about her and insure her that you would never leave her. then try to ease into telling her whats goin on hopefully she will understand and yall can work on things. i wish you luck

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  • structuredproduct

    Its really horrible for people to be so judgemental of this. I feel exactly the same way about my husband. I love him- but I fall in love with every single man I meet that pays me any attention. It's called growing up and not being able to cope with it and its completely normal.

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  • psycotics

    Don't leave her. I'd you didn't love her you wouldn't have married her

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