Is it normal to regret giving ex boyfriend this advice?
It has been a while before this since I had talked or hung out with my ex until I went to his dads birthday bbq. A week later we messaged on facebook and caught up with each other. He told me he was talking to someone and I was a little hurt but happy for him. He told me she had been talking to other guys which bothered him but didnt say anything. We had planned to hang out but she was against that and he told me he "respects her feelings". Keep in mind they weren't dating. Its nice of him to respect her feelings but when we were actually dating he never respected mine. So I guess you can say I was hurt and also the fact that its okay for her to talk to other guys which obviously means she didn't care about him.
We still messaged but it was dry. He had lost his phone but got a new one so he told me to text him. So we texted. One day he asked to hang out but in my head I was wondering about his other girl. We hung out and he told me he wasn't talking to her. He got tired of the other guys and told her he didnt want anything to do with her. She later egged his car and I don't think she should have went to that extreme. He was angry of course and hurt. We began hanging out and I can tell he has been heart broken. She has apologized recently but he said it wasn't sincere. It hurt me to see him that way and even though he has broke my heart so many times I didnt want to see him like that. So I told him that if she makes him happy he should give her another chance but this time he has to lay down some rules. He's given her so many chances but she really makes him happy. He might take it in to consideration and it kind of broke my heart but as long as hes happy again. I honestly don't think she deserves him and so far his parents did not yet meet her but doesn't approve. His mom is so sweet and I don't think the girl is good enough to meet her but at the end of the day its his choice. He was my first love and I will always love him and care for him. Btw she's still in high school and he graduated two years ago, me one. You think it was okay for me to give him that advice? To give her another chance even though I know he can do so much better.