Is it normal to really, really like someone you've never talked to?

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I'm an exchange student and I have this really bad crush on a boy. The thing is I have never talked to him, even though I've been in this country for 9 months and he used to be in two of my classes. I don't know WHY I like him, I keep telling myself that his not even cute, he has a girly voice, he's younger and shorter than me, and he's immature, but it doesn't seem to work, because I still look around in the playground trying to see him, and, somehow, I feel upset when I don't. The worst part is that at some point, I started to think he likes me too. There are always these awkward visual contacts, like seriously, he's EVERYWHERE, and he likes things about my country on facebook, even though he's never been to. For 9 months, I've always find a excuse to think about him, and it's really annoying to realise I don't even stand a chance to be his friend.

Is it normal? Do you think I'm just overreacting and imagining he likes me back? Should I stop fantasising?

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  • alv1592
    12 years ago

    I'm a bit confused...how old is he? You said you look for him on the playground, and he's immature, has a girlish voice, and he's shorter and younger than you. You failed to mention both your age and his.

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  • flutterhigh
    12 years ago

    Wait... playground? Well that explains the "girly" voice and immaturity. Tap that.

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  • SoccerStud88
    12 years ago

    suck his penis thatll work

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    itduz

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  • Sanna
    11 years ago

    wait... how old are you, and how old are the guy?

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  • Kandybars
    12 years ago

    I've felt exactly the same as you before. But the thing is it's not love, it's lust and it's ok to fantasize.

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  • MisterPanic
    12 years ago

    Reminds me of a girl in my highschool. She was really shy but very beautiful. After 1 year or so I decided to just talk to her, and she turned out to be really nice so that was awesome.

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