Is it normal to really like someone you know you can't have?

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I have had a crush on the same guy since I met him when I was in grade ten (I am now in first year university) and he is best friends with one of my best guy friends. The only problem is that he has been dating the same girl since I met him. I would never be a home wrecker but it is just killing me because the longer I wait the more I realize that I may never get my chance with him... And I know he has a crush on me too.. What do I do!??!?!

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  • MuteDefiler
    11 years ago

    If he has a crush on you too....... Ask him if he wants to fuck. If you're an attractive woman it's literally that simple. (No gender degradation intended.)

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  • dom180
    11 years ago

    Some people are instantly more attracted to people or things they can't have, purely because they can't have them. It's one of nature's ways of being a dick to people.

    Break all contact with him. I mean *all* contact, including Facebook, real life meet-ups, anything that reminds you of him, everything. It'll hurt for a while, but it's the best way I can think of to get over him. If it helps you get closure, tell him why you're breaking all contact with him.

    EDIT: Articles that may help you:

    http://www.wikihow.com/Get-Over-the-Guy-That-Has-a-Girlfriend
    http://www.wikihow.com/Get-over-a-Crush
    http://www.wikihow.com/Get-Over-a-Crush-That-You-Really-Don%27t-Want-to-Have
    http://www.wikihow.com/Get-over-the-Crush-You-Have-on-Your-Guy-Friend

    I've not proof-read those links, so I have no idea how helpful they are. I just ran a quick Google search :)

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  • iin07
    11 years ago

    Yes, it is normal to want something or someone you can't have, but just leave him alone while he is in his long-term relationship. Try to meet new people while you are in college and who knows, maybe your soulmate will walk into your life! Nobody likes a homewrecker!

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